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Crimson chains
looking4SubLocal posted a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
The heavy oak doors of the mansion groaned shut behind Lila, the echo swallowing her sharp intake of breath. She had been dragged here—not by force, but by the weight of her father’s failures, his deb ...-
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Toy choices
Papajune posted a topic in BDSM Gear & Sex Toys
What’s the first toy you think to grab when your kinky moment starts to grow? ...- 1 reply
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A Dungeon of Discipline
looking4SubLocal posted a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
The single word, low and absolute, cut through the heavy air of the dungeon. My breath hitched. The cold, hard floor bit into my knees, a familiar, grounding pain. My wrists, bound behind my back with ...-
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Mood Music
GentlemanDevil posted a topic in Kink Academy
For anyone out there when a particular song comes on and it tweaks that sexy/kinky part of your brain, whats that song? Let's all share our favorites and maybe add some new ones to our existing lists. ...- 57 replies
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I’d rather be..
Maddiecakes posted a topic in Online Munch
You ever get into those funks at work and you’d much rather be somewhere else? Where and what would it be? ...- 7 replies
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Shaving
Vagabond23 posted a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
Not long ago.. my "date" and I shaved each other's bodies. With a straight razor , and that was a crazer turn on for both of us. Is this a fetish? Have any of you done this and been obsessed and turn ...- 8 replies
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