Switching preferences and such..

[Ki****]

So I'm a primary submissive switch, but occasionally I looove a good power struggle or swap.
When that dominant burst surfaces- what's you're take on it?
Do you play around and let the sub have some fun only to take control when they're not expecting it?
Ooooor is it an instant "back in your place" moment where you take charge and remind them who's the Dom?

[Deleted Member]

I would put you back in your place I'm the Dom

[Ch****]

I love the switch ups and when they take back control its awesome

[Bo****]

My theory is that every once in a while as a reward that slip in roles is necessary with some subs to allow them that lil extra that you truly have their interest your thoughts but after a bit of fun and play.....I gently lead them back to their place in our time and if not willingly then I speak with my extremely domineering side and they listen. Otherwise their collar gets cut up right in front of them as they are requested to leave and again if not then I may act out of my character

[Deleted Member]

Sometimes it can be fun to let the sub run with it for a little bit. 😏 imo, that is. I like a little challenge sometimes.

[bb****]

I would love it as a challenge and would see how far we could take the sexual/power jousting.

[Jo****]

 

It can help to explore what is happening underneath that feeling — because there are usually deeper psychological themes there, such as:

Power and validation: wanting to feel desired or “chosen,” even when the situation is emotionally complicated.

Exclusivity and attention: liking the feeling that people are willing to share you or compete for you, which can make you feel special or valued.

Emotional tension: the excitement that comes from something feeling risky or off-limits.

 

 

[Deleted Member]

I think it’s all about enjoyment regardless of the roles so if switching things around is fun at the time then by all means do it. You are in charge of deciding what you like not anyone else or boxing yourself into some title

[Deleted Member]

I enjoy a switch and love changing roles multiple times.

[wh****]

Some of my favorite experiences is being cuffed up and taken advantage of and after a length of being teased and used ive broken a few cuffs (nothing heavy duty or particularly well made but not some cheep flimsy crap) to dominate and feast and that moment one of those chain links snaps and you grasp their body with primordial hunger, the way the eyes widen with disbelief and their insides melt and gush, maaan not much can top that.

[ha****]

I like to switch roles half way through the night too. Don't seem to find others that do as well

[Deleted Member]

For me its highly dependent on whos doing the topping especially if they're primal like i am.... But i can flip on a switch halfway through...especially if they do something i dont particularly enjoy or get me mad 🤣 Ie they bit to hard on purpose or used that toy that stings like a MFer and bam...power struggle and back in your place.

Ill add i lean Dominant more often than not. I'm primarily a bottom just for play when i feel like it.

[ha****]

Anger never enters my sex life. If the Domme applies too much ***, we stop. If it happens repeatedly, we're over

[Cr****]

Its a 50 50 thing and doesnt have any time frame im use to being dom/in charge start everythng, make commands, etc but I also love it when randomly the sub while just demand and *** what they want just shakes things up changes the feel and breaks up the norm brings some excitement in plus the passion and fierceness when they take over is something else all together.

[Deleted Member]

I'll let them have their fun to a point. They may pay for it afterwards, depends on how much they *** their brief power.

[Sw****]

I am a switch, so I love a bratty sub. It depends on the person, though, because some can get annoying. I will punish or not punish depending on my mood and whether I want to rein*** their behavoir or not. But none of it is our of anger, I just view it as a part of the fun.