Let’s Talk Energy and Chemistry

[xv****]

Ever meet someone and instantly feel that spark, not just attraction, but an energy that feels different? The kind that doesn’t need words to be understood, where silence feels easy and presence feels electric.

I’ve always believed chemistry goes beyond looks; it’s in how two energies align, how conversations flow, and how comfort just happens without effort.

What’s that “energy” or “vibe” that draws you to someone instantly?

[Deleted Member]

Nothing anymore. I had that with my ex in a way I never have before and she used it to destroy every ounce of trust and love I ever had. So after 18 months of hoping she wasnt lying and that her actions would finally start to match her words I finally broke. Now I run from the idea of chemistry or love or hope or anything remotely enjoyable. All those do now is make me feel sick like im dying as I think of everything she did and how little it mattered to her and still doesn't. She will be the first to tell you the things she did were nothing and im dramatic. If you read the list and I can prove everyone of them youd wonder how I made it 18 months

[Sw****]

Yup and now he’s gone 💔

[Sa****]

Yes I still BELIEVE in it as well as passion
I pray I meet her

[da****]

2 hours ago, Mr_A_999 said:

Nothing anymore. I had that with my ex in a way I never have before and she used it to destroy every ounce of trust and love I ever had. So after 18 months of hoping she wasnt lying and that her actions would finally start to match her words I finally broke. Now I run from the idea of chemistry or love or hope or anything remotely enjoyable. All those do now is make me feel sick like im dying as I think of everything she did and how little it mattered to her and still doesn't. She will be the first to tell you the things she did were nothing and im dramatic. If you read the list and I can prove everyone of them youd wonder how I made it 18 months

My experience with that was that I was attracted to a narcissist because of my childhood. It was familiar, comfortable even because I knew what to expect and how to handle it always with the feeling of rejection and walking on eggshells however. I seemed to attract them until I worked on me and grew up that part of me that needed that familiarity. Not saying that is your exact experience but that “chemistry” for me always ended up in the same place until I healed.

[Deleted Member]

52 minutes ago, daytimeplayer said:

My experience with that was that I was attracted to a narcissist because of my childhood. It was familiar, comfortable even because I knew what to expect and how to handle it always with the feeling of rejection and walking on eggshells however. I seemed to attract them until I worked on me and grew up that part of me that needed that familiarity. Not saying that is your exact experience but that “chemistry” for me always ended up in the same place until I healed.

It has been mentioned to me quite a bit recently that I chase the love of people who will never return it. This appears to attract individuals who enjoy toying with their prey so to speak. So sadly I think youre right. Even more sadly there's no way to heal. Im just quitting and thats that. I have nothing I want to heal anymore. It would be like saving the ashes of a fire to use to rebuild the house it once was.

[Sa****]

Yes narcissism is a powerful tool to someone who is evil. I hated my time after being with one because all she did was mimic and I thought she was the one

[ta****]

Narcissists will play, to obtain the spark, then begin the manipulation. It’s very difficult to trust after several episodes of the same. I’m working on boundaries.

[Sa****]

Good for you tapestry. I have done the same when I get that vibe I say goodbye

[kj****]

I have!
I met someone from Facebook dating.
When I opened my door , He was so tall and fkn hot!ashe stepped in ,I started kissing him pushing him against the door. Wrapping my legs He felt so good and omg.he smelled so yummy.
The sex ,chemistry is off the charts.
The most beautiful Dick and
This has never happened to me before .
It was like a primal instinct ,I didn't think .I just did.

[Sa****]

Sometimes it just to happen like that
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