Overall opinion on this app?

[To****]

I'm just curious to see what everyone thinks. Personally, I don't see myself meeting anyone from here given its nature but I've kept it in my library as a distraction. The plus side so far has been messages that get a conversation going.

How about you?

[ab****]

I love using this app just for attention, practice, and education. I get to learn more about the kink community and find examples of what I like (: I’ve only met 1 person so far from here and it was fine; definitely not the app for dating. But I always hope that these apps will bring about my secret soulmate lol

[Pr****]

I met a ridiculously gorgeous woman, built a solid dynamic, and it evolved into an extremely healthy relationship.

I'm here for education and growth, for myself and with her.

The app is what you want to make of it.

[Ju****]

Honestly feel like they should a setting or a feature so where your swiping on profile it should be where it goes from most recently logged in and not where it’s almost all of them are over 3-6 months last login

[wa****]

Same thing

[Deleted Member]

This app sucks. The interface is poorly designed, the actions are unclear, and soooooo make fake profiles that I don't even feel appealing to upload more pictures or more info on my profile

[lo****]

Ok so my curiosity is p@@king, totally new with this so I hope it gets me in the right direction

[Re****]

Unfortunately not many active people in my area, but a lot of scammers and profiters (trying to get $) . On a free account now, unfortunately very limited so cant reach out to a lot of people who are still new.

[Csm0310]

Most accounts on here haven't logged in for months! I think after not logging in for a month or more then profile should be hidden so people are not wasting time swiping on accounts that never log in

[Bu****]

I have quite the volving relationship with this app. I came here to learn about kinks and such, then I thought it was a dating app and now I am slowly starting to think it is just a social app, kinda like fb or IG. So that's how I'll handle it from now on. Had some great convos so far, nothing ended up in a date, but it seems most people from Munich are completely inactive.

[Se****]

Lots of people using this to send nudes. I get a lot of folks too far away so I had to narrow down my filters and block the guys begging and begging for more and more pictures. And they just don't stop because all they do is jerk off all day.

[Si****]

I read someone's profile that said "they used to take this app seriously" and their profile was filled at one point but just reduced to that. I'm starting to understand why. I treated this like a social app from the start it doesn't feel that way to be honest like it wants to be social but that's more developmental they aren't willing to invest. So I don't expect much from this app. I'm from a major city and took a couple year hiatus from the lifestyle social clubs and wanted to expand my and my partners horizon. Also how does "matches" work is it matching people based on the test results? Because that test is meh.

[Deleted Member]

Too many fake profiles, or profiles that are months old. Too many profiles that you have to send gifts and never hear from anybody. Seems to be like a lot of scammers and pay to talk to anyone. So much for being a free app to actually engage with people. Overall it has been very disappointing.

[TheBookCollector]

Its not the best app but its also not the worst, as the mods seem to be very proactive when you report profiles that are just phishing or trying to scam.
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In regards to it being a good way to learn, irs not bad, but fetlife is better IMHO, especially for a newbie.

[Deleted Member]

I hate it, I prefer fetlife

[do****]

Yeah, a lot of women in my area have their profile set to only accept gifts, you can't Spank them or message them, so I just pass. Eff you if you only want whatever the gifts get you here. I don't understand it

[sardonicus87]

I hate it, like I hate most of the internet, but it's not the app's fault, it's the users of it.
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I am here to try to meet someone, because my kink is so niche even within kink, I have to spread where I look wide. And like most of the Internet, here there's too many fakes (I don't mean scammers, I mean real fake people, vanillas in kink clothing), almost nobody is here to actually meet IRL (everyone's only to learn or for attention or e-socializing), and there's way too many dumb questions.
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It's like 99.9% badly written fantasy stories, attention seeking shit takes, and nobody wanting anything real.
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But can't meet people IRL because nobody will leave their fn house, the few that do are annoying af like *** with their lack of social skills and awareness (too loud, obnoxious, etc). Like, where the hell are the normal people in general, let alone normal people that happen to be kinky?

[Vo****]

I’ve tried to meet up with people here. I’m not bad looking and nice body. Nobody will meet up and now you have to pay to see cruises. It’s kind of a waste

[xm****]

A lot of people hier are just fake accounts or people who is trying to make some interaction on the app so the app gets some *** 😃

[Ad****]

My interactions with bots and scammers vs. real people has been about 20:1. Of the three real people I've talked to... all stopped logging in before we could meet up.

[st****]

To many fake fets an not allot real locals

[Ceejayuk]

Yep, lots of fake accounts, time wasters and people wanting different things to what they say on profile etc. Though I have spoke to a few nice people.

[My****]

Very few real people on here. No real connections. Very limited interactions. I won’t be renewing.

[Ca****]

The only thing here that is truly free, is the frustration of being liked and spanked by people who are on different continents.

[we****]

Very true you say what they want and boom they are gone.