About me
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- Networking
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
- Cybersex
Description
Hi, and thanks for stopping by.
If you’re drawn to structure, consistency, and a dynamic where care and control go hand in hand, we’ll likely get along.
I’m a Daddy with a calm, grounded presence. Naturally patient and nurturing, but firm when it comes to the structure we build together. I enjoy creating routines, expectations, and a sense of stability that lets you switch off, feel safe, and be looked after properly.
About me
I'm 29. Outside of kink, I’m easygoing. I’m into football, F1, darts, and gaming, usually RPGs but a bit of everything. Music is a massive part of my life. I love trance, DnB, and metal, and I am always counting down to the next festival. I also enjoy learning and keeping my mind active, which currently means diving into psychology and teaching myself Python.
Dynamics & interests
I’m interested in connected, structured dynamics that build over time.
TPE: Focused on trust, guidance, and removing mental load rather than control for its own sake.
DDLG & ABDL: Care, discipline, regression, and long-term progression with the right person.
Pet play: Obedience, energy, and managing a bit of playful chaos when it fits.
Other kinks: Impact, posture, latex, chastity or denial, anal, and incorporating tech into control. and are on the table too, but they are always handled with deep trust, precision, and heavy aftercare.
Limits: No , no hardcore , no ***, and no medical play. I value control, not harm.
What I’m looking for
Something that blends connection, structure, and kink naturally.
I value consistency, like daily check-ins, voice notes, and shared routines. I appreciate the kind of dynamic that exists both inside and outside of scenes. Because of this, distance isn't a deal breaker for the right person as long as our digital connection is strong. The goal is something that feels grounding, not just exciting.
I prefer to take things slow initially by chatting here, getting to know each other's boundaries, and seeing if our communication styles align before jumping into anything heavy.
You’ll likely fit well if you:
Are single, 20+, and UK-based.
Like structure, guidance, and feeling looked after.
Communicate openly and consistently.
Have a sense of curiosity about yourself and your kinks.
If you message, tell me what drew you in and a bit about yourself.
If this resonates, don’t overthink it and say hi.
Limits
, , Illegal, medical, Breath Play, Public Play, Needle Play
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7 (Active)
- Adult Diaper Fetish
- Age Play
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Anal Beads
- Anal Plugs
- Fear Play
- Bathroom Denial (Active)
- BDSM (Active)
- BDSM Branding
- BDSM Collar
- Begging
- Bondage (Active)
- Bondage Bed
- Bondage Shackles (Active)
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Cage
- Bondage Rope
- Bondage Sleepsack (Active)
- Breast Play
- Caregiver / little (Active)
- Chains
- Chastity (Active)
- Chastity Belt
- Collar & Leash
- Cosplay
- Cuckold
- Cuckold Bull
- Cuddling (Active)
- Deep Throating
- Lingerie Fetish
- Dildos
- Dirty Talk
- Discipline (Active)
- Domination (Active)
- Edgeplay (Active)
- Edging (Active)
- Extreme Bondage
- Restraints
- Fetish Wear
- Fingering
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Foot Fetish
- Gags
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner
- Hair Pulling (Active)
- Handcuffs
- Handjobs
- Humiliation (Active)
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Knife Play
- Costumes (Active)
- Lap Dance
- Masks
- Masturbation
- Masturbation Machine
- Muzzle Gag
- Nipple Clamps
- Orgasm Control
- Spanking Paddles
- Pee Desperation
- Cock Ring
- Phone Sex
- Post Orgasm Torture
- Posture Collar
- Predicament Bondage (Active)
- Prostate Massager (Active)
- Prostate Orgasm
- Puppy Play
- Role Play
- Scratching
- Sensory Deprivation
- Sex Chat
- Shower Sex
- Sex Machine
- Sex Toys
- Sex Swing
- Slave Training
- Spanking
- Strap-on
- Striptease
- Submission (Active)
- Sweet Pain (Active)
- Taser (Active)
- Subservience (Active)
- Vibrators
- Wax Play
- Wand Massager (Active)
- Watersports
- Whips
- Diaper Fetish
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Fylde with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
If you’re drawn to structure, consistency, and a dynamic where care and control go hand in hand, we’ll likely get along.
I’m a Daddy with a calm, grounded presence. Naturally patient and nurturing, but firm when it comes to the structure we build together. I enjoy Read more… creating routines, expectations, and a sense of stability that lets you switch off, feel safe, and be looked after properly.
About me
I'm 29. Outside of kink, I’m easygoing. I’m into football, F1, darts, and gaming, usually RPGs but a bit of everything. Music is a massive part of my life. I love trance, DnB, and metal, and I am always counting down to the next festival. I also enjoy learning and keeping my mind active, which currently means diving into psychology and teaching myself Python.
Dynamics & interests
I’m interested in connected, structured dynamics that build over time.
TPE: Focused on trust, guidance, and removing mental load rather than control for its own sake.
DDLG & ABDL: Care, discipline, regression, and long-term progression with the right person.
Pet play: Obedience, energy, and managing a bit of playful chaos when it fits.
Other kinks: Impact, posture, latex, chastity or denial, anal, and incorporating tech into control. and are on the table too, but they are always handled with deep trust, precision, and heavy aftercare.
Limits: No , no hardcore , no ***, and no medical play. I value control, not harm.
What I’m looking for
Something that blends connection, structure, and kink naturally.
I value consistency, like daily check-ins, voice notes, and shared routines. I appreciate the kind of dynamic that exists both inside and outside of scenes. Because of this, distance isn't a deal breaker for the right person as long as our digital connection is strong. The goal is something that feels grounding, not just exciting.
I prefer to take things slow initially by chatting here, getting to know each other's boundaries, and seeing if our communication styles align before jumping into anything heavy.
You’ll likely fit well if you:
Are single, 20+, and UK-based.
Like structure, guidance, and feeling looked after.
Communicate openly and consistently.
Have a sense of curiosity about yourself and your kinks.
If you message, tell me what drew you in and a bit about yourself.
If this resonates, don’t overthink it and say hi.
For me boundary setting is super important in kink dynamics! It keeps everyone safe, respected, and having fun together.
Chat about your boundaries openly and clearly with your partner right from the start, before any play happens. It should feel natural and easy, not awkward or like you need a Read more… script.
If you are finding it hard to bring them up and asking others for advice on how to say it, that is a big red flag for me. In a healthy dynamic, those talks flow smoothly with no hesitation.
Most accounts on here haven't logged in for months! I think after not logging in for a month or more then profile should be hidden so people are not wasting time swiping on accounts that never log in
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