Finding partners without a specific kink – what’s your experience?

[So****]

For those that don't have a particular kink do you find it harder to find a play partner. Being an older self Dom is a challenge. Besides being a shorter guy that doesn't help. Do any women feel this way. What are your challenges?

[Sq****]

I don't see any problems being an older Dom. If anything it's helped. Being confident about capabilities, knowing how to provide a safe and judgement free environment lead to my sub pursuing me when I wasn't even looking for one. That end up becoming the most healthy and positive dynamic I've ever had. Know how to cater to their expectations, wants, and needs while understanding the definition of each. Communication skills are everything. Subs will quietly inspect what you put out there. Be upfront and present yourself accordingly.
We went in on a lifestyle dynamic, there was no specific kink to address in doing so.
Being patient and not taking the first sub that pops up is fantastic. Patiently wait for what meshes with you and your capacity to tailor their experience.

[li****]

Yes, it's a challenge for us dominant women.
Most sub men are just bottoms with very specific fetishes that, very often, no sane person would want to participate in.
Last week I was told by someone he wanted to be ra-ped and that I should try to get pregnant while doing it. No comments.

[kr****]

I’m an older dom single dad with 4 kids under 11 …
And I’m short … just be u .. what ever thst is … be genuine and authentic ….. good communication is everything my friend . You will find someone