Anyone else happens to be "lucky" like this? xD

[Deleted Member]

For friends, and a romantic partner, I always choose people who are very much like me in personality and interests. But in the terms of sexual desires and kinks, we're always in opposition.

On the other hand, the people who share my perverted side, are never compatible as actual friends.

 

I don't know what's the reason of this paradox, but it happens to be a big problem in most relationships.

[Ak****]

As you said it’s very true , I feel the same and in fact experienced the same , the whole reasoning behind this could be lack of differentiating between your kink , and your accomplishments,  most often people get confused relating kink and the respect they hold for you . This indeed pushes to be a turn off 😂

[Eve-7274]

You definitely aren't alone!

[Deleted Member]

3 hours ago, Ak6 said:

As you said it’s very true , I feel the same and in fact experienced the same , the whole reasoning behind this could be lack of differentiating between your kink , and your accomplishments,  most often people get confused relating kink and the respect they hold for you . This indeed pushes to be a turn off 😂

I mean, my friends never share my kinks and fetishes. Some people do, but those are only models or roleplay fuck buddies.

Example: None of my goth-oriented fellows likes feet. While the feet models I follow are far from any friend material for me.

[Deleted Member]

Preaching to the choir 🤷‍♂️🤨