What makes you feel loved and happy

[Dr****]

Thought I would make a nice thread about what makes you feel warm and loved. Let’s keep it respectful, but you can be honest about really makes you feel good. For me it’s probably giving or receiving a nice naked naked massage. Some good aftercare, or something to get the juices flowing. Or just to simply feel some nice pampering. What’s your go to when you’re feeling naughty and lovey?

[Xx****]

Communication and aftercare. If you like what’s happening, tell me. If you had a good time, show me. No matter how hard or challenging the situation was, a little softness and sensuality post-action is always appreciated and welcome.

[Ri****]

Me loved and happy is...warm, sweaty, cuddles post play

[Ma****]

I love to cuddle after a nice, hot shower together!

[RichardBlack61]

That long hug and gentle kiss from the one person you always need and want

[Br****]

Cuddling. Definitely cuddling. I've been made fun of for being a big strong man who loves to cuddle

[Be****]

Being held, casual intimacy and gifts I can remember Him by....

[Deleted Member]

I don't think I had someone who wanted to please me that bad. A deep conversation is my final answer.

[po****]

Good company, great times with loved ones.

[Lu****]

Hmmmm... I'm an odd one but easy! Quiet mornings and afternoons! Enough city living for me! I won't say no to cuddles as well! It's the lighthearted stuff that puts a smile on my face! ☺️

[Odd-1086]

Belonging, that feeling you get when you feel that your wanted, that your efforts are appreciated and your needs are taken into account

[CJ_SilverQueen]

Cuddles with aftercare, the warmth and closeness, the soft touches and tenderness. The gentleness after the storm.

[DP****]

Diapers

[Dr****]

Very good answers you guys. I agree whole heartedly 💗

[wb****]

The title asked what makes you feel loved? At the end you ask what we go to when feeling naughty. These are two very different things. Im going to treat them as such.
This is not a woe is me respond, answering the first question I feel need more than just a quick one line.

1) A lot of people put after care or post… cuddles, shower, closeness of some form. I absolutely love that for you, I truly do. That not my experience I’ve not really gotten that, yes there have been a 1 or 2 min laying next to each other, I don’t count that as cuddling. Anytime I want to cuddle I (wish I could make that bigger) have to be the one who initiates the cuddles. And it is never post…. Most of the time I’m left to clean up to bedding, myself, and do what ever else is needed and then go about the day. Aftercare would probably go a long ways to making me feel loved and happy I don’t know. What does make me feel cared for is little things. A hug from behind when I’m doing the dish after having a bad day, a drive by kiss on the forehead, offered help with folding laundry or to take out the trash, holding my hand in public to show the world I’m yours & want me, being given space in his life and heart is what would probably make me feel loved.

2) What’s your go to when feeling naughty? If he’s not with me a text telling him I’m feeling…. and can’t wait for him to be home. I picture of what I plan on putting on, not in it but it being laid out, so he can imagine. A picture of the bed, the couch, shower with no caption just the location.

[Li****]

Feeling understood and accepted would probably do it.

[Deleted Member]

The lifestyle makes me feel happy and loved. Being a sadodom is one thing, but finding a woman who not only let's me be dominant but thoroughly enjoys it, that makes me feel special. And my wife wonders why im no longer happy since she stopped....

[Sk****]

Hmm, honestly I haven't felt lived in a very long time, if ever. But such is life. We keep on pushing along

[Dr****]

4 hours ago, SkorpKing said:

Hmm, honestly I haven't felt lived in a very long time, if ever. But such is life. We keep on pushing along

You’re not alone dude, and yea, we just keep pushing. Can’t let it stop us from enjoying. Like that pup in your picture probably loves ya lol

[Re****]

Being praised, being seen for the services i do, being treated as someone pet, and generally feeling like I belong to and with someone

[Dr****]

45 minutes ago, RedRoseBud said:

Being praised, being seen for the services i do, being treated as someone pet, and generally feeling like I belong to and with someone

Whoop 🙌 🥳

[Lizard]

Being loved hasn't happened in a while. My happiness is when I am in my diaper. I've been in relationships where a few of my exes knew. One was fully supportive and even started wearing herself. She absolutely loved it. Another didn't mind but she said she'd never change my diaper, which was fine, but just letting someone who trusts you and doesn't judge is also happiness. 😍

[bo****]

When she buys me food