You could always go to a silversmith and have it melted down. You could make something new for yourself to symbolize your freedom from him and live for yourself instead. Then every time you see it, it will symbolize you as a survivor not a victim of him. Give it a symbol of wings or a phoenix to Read more… symbolize you and only you.

Have a discussion, is she just wanting to understand the Dom role in the dynamic or are her needs changing? What you have described doesn’t sound respectful and as a Dom I am not sure how you are tolerating that. She should be able to express her wants and needs in a kind and positive way while Read more… considering yours. Don’t allow your authority to be undermined. If your needs and hers no longer align, you have a choice to make. At any rate if she has someone else, you should as well. Maybe you will find someone better suited.

To add to my previous post, my being a sub is truly the combination of. The previous post focused on what I need in a Dom, but once that is done, then the giving up control and being able to focus on the task takes over. How to be the best I can at it, and how to bring the most pleasure from it to Read more… my Dom. Being able to please him and expending the effort and dedication for excellence to my task is freeing for my mind. Focusing on what I am doing without outside distractions.

I believe it goes both ways. I give my power over to my Dom willingly. He may choose to or not to take it and what to do with it. (Within my boundaries of course)

A combination of. I won’t submit to just anyone. It must be for someone I trust and has the ability to lead. Admiration for the person that exhibits these abilities is where my submission lies. My submission isn’t blind. It is meaningful. If I give it, I feel it should also be respected and honored Read more… for the gift it is.

Beautiful

A bit long but a good story. I enjoyed it.

Yes, if it is real and genuine

Wow! That was amazing