Kinky Holiday Traditions and Alternatives?

December 13, 2025

Greetings Kinksters!

It's the time of year when those of us who live our lives with alternate flair and grounding can find ourselves a bit on the outside of the Christo-Corporate Holiday Season. I would love for anyone out there to share how their experience in kink has influenced their choices in how they celebrate the turning of the seasons, specifically the traditional Christmas/Yule season.

For me, I love to celebrate Yule (the celebration of the Winter Solstice) rather than Christmas and my personal kink-inspired twist is to have a celebration in honor of the Roman holiday of Saturnalia where my Submissive has charge for the day and I am at her bidding. I would love to expand it to a larger party/feast with Kink friends and the community where is a bit of safe debauchery where those who practice power exchange relationships get at least one day a year to boss around their partners - in good fun and with complete consent of course - all while celebrating the feast of Sol Invictus (the unconquered Sun).

Would love to hear about any other celebrations, traditions, or kink-inspired approaches to the season you practice or want to practice in your life.

Thanks and be safe!