purposefully deliberate when it comes to goals. I take you seriously if you are sincere and honest.
Thank you all for contributing your time and responses. I appreciate those subs who provided perspective.
This was a serious question. And now it would be truly informative to hear from subs what they prefer; learned Doms with a sense of tradition or Dom who are self taught.
This is a great topic.
How: honestly and clearly. Come from a place of empathy and understanding. Exercise patience and be accommodating at each point.
Also, your partner should be honest about limits and what makes for an uncomfortable situation.