Switches Dilemma

[Tr****]

Have an opportunity to stop by a shop tonight and pick up something kinky to wear. Looking for something to make my brat more confident out and about that’ll keep me humble while he teases me. I’m stuck between a chastity cage and a shorter urethral sound that’s safe to wear while I walk around. Both of us play the switch so I’m not afraid of the cage ruining the dynamic. I’m hoping either choice will make his teasing all the more frustrating so disciplining him later feels that much more satisfying, but maybe you’d suggest something else all together.
What do you kind and helpful freaks have in mind?

[Sa****]

The chastity cage, but with a leash to attach to it to guide a brat like yourself

[Deleted Member]

My wife and I are both switches. Sometimes she locks me up for a week or 2 and sometimes I dominate her in other ways. Heck, even with the cage on I've flogged and ***d her to cum over and over. Its all about making it about the 2 of you not just you. That's the fun!!

[Chef4bea]

Im a switch my wife was more submissive then she pegged me and got way more dominate, she was bossy b4 but now it got into command territory that turned me on she also got more kinky in the bed room . Unfortunately she passed and now idk how to go about exploring with a new person .

[Chef4bea]

Also I found most femdom women want to be paid , I have never paid for any sex act and is a huge turn off for me since knowing rhat the women likes me is the biggest turn on of all