Welcome to my profile, please take the time to read it … don’t just look at the photos. If you msg I will ask questions to test you!

Those without a photo to their profile or no profile bio will not get a reply. I’m not looking for anyone in their 20s, 30s or even 40s (sorry guys just too young for me), please be age appropriate and relatively close to my age, (I am 59!!), and it’s worthwhile to check location/distance. Please no ‘wanna be’ doms, fake doms or others who love bomb, set up a meet and then ghost or leave you on unread either!

I don’t tolerate disloyalty .. if you want my loyalty, my trust, my respect, my submission .. earn it! Don’t be inconsistent with your communication, don’t leave it days or longer without a msg or a call .. !

So if you’re still reading 👏👏 well done. Yes, I am a brat, I have some alpha traits and I can be fierce when ed off, but I’m also submissive!

I’m bordering on primal/prey play ... I will resist and potentially fight back. Who doesn’t like to spar?

I favour restraint and control over sadistic tendencies although I am a brat and punishments do have their place, I can handle a spanking but I’m not into for the sake of it. For me it’s monogamy over polyamory and a LTR over NSA or play dates.

I prefer a tall athletically built man, I’m 5’4”(almost). I’m looking for a genuine Dom/DD, I have a praise kink, consistent communication, aftercare and cuddling is important. I need to feel safe, cared for and respected, and firm control and discipline when I misbehave. I need to hear from my Dom/Daddy daily for reassurance/ guidance/ tasks if there is distance.

I’m still discovering my kinky side, happy to explore other kinks/limits subject to negotiation and consent.

, , vomit, water sports, knives, needles, branding, breath play, impact or anything that leaves marks.