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What should I wear for first date with a dom?


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Daddybrains

What kind of dynamic does the Dom claim to want? That can be a guide for what to wear. But also, ideally, your Dom should like you for what you are. What attracted him to you in the first place? Be yourself.

19 hours ago, start2finish said:

So suggest outfits or clothing that would turn a Dom head?

it depends on the person; but honestly.

Something which is contextual for the date/location

something which you feel happy/comfortable in

Something which maybe is an 'effort' to look nice - but isn't an unreasonable effort, for example you could and would do this again. 

I get the dress to impress bit . But my first day with my Dom was a coffee get to know each other date so I wore what I felt comfortable in

I'd say since it's a first date, wear something that expresses your personality. Expressing yourself via fashion is one way to definitely turn their head. You should feel comfortable during your first date not sure if y'all have met before but I hope it goes well for you and have fun.

Desdemona

Wear something you are comfortable in and that makes you feel sexy and confident. Everyone has their preferences but that would be something to look into when the time comes. If they don't like you for you and enjoy the confidence you carry of your own then it's that Dom's loss X hope you have a great first meet x

Wear whatever the fuck you want— They are domming you

Something you feel confident, cute and comfortable in. Don't overthink it too much and remember just have fun and be yourself. Everything else will work out in the end

My submissive was fully dressed. Until he wasn't...

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DarkArts1066

Does your Dom have a focus on a particular part of your body ?
Breasts ? …. Bottom ? …. hair …? Lips ?…

If you don’t have anything skimpy or slutty, then try to wear something with accentuates his particular interests.

A tight pair of jeans or a low cut top, - or a particular type of material perhaps ?

As a big breast fetishist, I like women to dress in clothing which shows off cleavage, or braless perhaps to show off nipples… or satin/silk because I like the feel of that material over skin ……

Hope this helps.

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