Noob Q Are butt plugs worth it?

[Sl****]

I beg of real life kinksters- are they really worth buying? Do they make someone lose control if hidden while moving about? I'm in a not quite there relationship with a curvy girl who loves all holes being played with but I've seen them being worn esp by content creators. Please tell me about what its value is mostly for - wearing all day, using, or posing for pics and videos? My GF had never had a toy until I introduced her to them. I get dildos mostly since I lost my prostate to aggressive cancer and want to please her in any way that I can.
I'm asking general info and not trying to troll or seek graphic responses but if it helps me understand how they can bring something fresh in, feel free to share.
Much appreciated! 

[Sq****]

It depends on the individual using it. You're not going to know until it's tried. It's so ridiculously subjective that you won't get an answer for someone else without their input themselves. Please stop comparing your partner to a content creator or pushing her to do what is presented, usually, as entertainment value.

[in****]

I love anal so I have to say they’re worth it 😋🤙 the nerves there are extra sensitive so the pleasure is strong from the stimulation alone. They’re versatile so they really can be used for all the reasons you listed especially since there are so many different styles. They’re good for preparing for anal sex if that’s the route you want to take as well. You can do a sort of DP play as well. You won’t necessarily lose control when wearing them in public but I do get super horny wearing mine out.

[Sl****]

58 minutes ago, SquirrelandWrangler said:

It depends on the individual using it. You're not going to know until it's tried. It's so ridiculously subjective that you won't get an answer for someone else without their input themselves. Please stop comparing your partner to a content creator or pushing her to do what is presented, usually, as entertainment value.

My intent is not at all compared to your insensitive suggestion at the end of your response.

[Sl****]

50 minutes ago, insatia-bull said:

I love anal so I have to say they’re worth it 😋🤙 the nerves there are extra sensitive so the pleasure is strong from the stimulation alone. They’re versatile so they really can be used for all the reasons you listed especially since there are so many different styles. They’re good for preparing for anal sex if that’s the route you want to take as well. You can do a sort of DP play as well. You won’t necessarily lose control when wearing them in public but I do get super horny wearing mine out.

Thanks so very much for your feedback! I’m sincere regarding feedback and what you’ve shared helps a lot!

[Je****]

Oh plugs are absolutely amazing to wear, and the wide variety of options that are available is worth it. I’m particularly fond of both my tail plug and the 3” girth going in plug 2” girth of central pole. Amazing feeling wearing each of them with different feels

[Sl****]

1 hour ago, Jecture said:

Oh plugs are absolutely amazing to wear, and the wide variety of options that are available is worth it. I’m particularly fond of both my tail plug and the 3” girth going in plug 2” girth of central pole. Amazing feeling wearing each of them with different feels

I appreciate your input Jecture. I’ll let this question simmer but leaning on purchasing, hopefully at a size that won’t be - MOF, do you suggest a smaller size for wearing while out vs one for immediate satisfaction? TIA

[Au****]

You can purchase sets with multiple sizes for training purposes. Best to start smaller and gradually increase the size until she’s found the sweet spot. And for the love of god make sure it has a 2” base. Any smaller and the risk of having it internalized increases. Nobody wants a trip to the emergency room.

[Do****]

37 minutes ago, Auragon said:

You can purchase sets with multiple sizes for training purposes. Best to start smaller and gradually increase the size until she’s found the sweet spot. And for the love of god make sure it has a 2” base. Any smaller and the risk of having it internalized increases. Nobody wants a trip to the emergency room.

I second everything she said 😉

[Sq****]

8 hours ago, Slave2WhiteWomen said:

My intent is not at all compared to your insensitive suggestion at the end of your response.

Insensitive? You miss the irony entirely of that sentiment. How often do you gaslight and project? You dead ass compared an acting to a result you wanted from your partner then blame me for calling it.

[Sl****]

1 hour ago, Auragon said:

You can purchase sets with multiple sizes for training purposes. Best to start smaller and gradually increase the size until she’s found the sweet spot. And for the love of god make sure it has a 2” base. Any smaller and the risk of having it internalized increases. Nobody wants a trip to the emergency room.

OMG good morning and THANK you Auragon!!🫶🏾 I read an innocuous review on that Alexa store place but your measurement is beyond helpful!! Also I’d like to DM you just to expand and apologize.

[Sl****]

1 hour ago, DommeDelight said:

I second everything she said 😉

Thank You for amplifying Auragon’s response Mistress DommeDelight. I also wholeheartedly applaud Your top thoughts in Your profile about lifestyle Dommes. I wish You all the best in Your search Ma’am and I’m honored at Your attention.

[Sl****]

9 hours ago, insatia-bull said:

I love anal so I have to say they’re worth it 😋🤙 the nerves there are extra sensitive so the pleasure is strong from the stimulation alone. They’re versatile so they really can be used for all the reasons you listed especially since there are so many different styles. They’re good for preparing for anal sex if that’s the route you want to take as well. You can do a sort of DP play as well. You won’t necessarily lose control when wearing them in public but I do get super horny wearing mine out.

What you’ve shared helps as I had been concerned whether control can be hard while in public. She love butt play and she’s so trusting that I want to give as much love to her with my choice. Adding your insight helps me grow confidence as I think that your feedback has given me the resolve to purchase and then let her explore which size will be best.