So tell me … women only please

[Cu****]

I still prefer vaginal play. I do like using Toys for anal which adds to the pleasure. Typically toy wise, it would be something a bit smaller maybe vibration or one of the toys that has the capability to “thrust”- I do not like hard or metal anal toys at all.

I do like human contact but I also want to know ahead of time if anal play would be on the table. There is prep that goes into it to make sure everyone is relaxed etc.

[Deleted Member]

Vaginal over anything else. Too many men DO NOT KNOW or CARE to know how to engage safely, let alone care about or bring pleasure to the other(s) involved.

Anal is a mood, and that mood doesn't happen unless the respect, proper mental exchange, and genuine CARE for Me as a person have been had.

Barriers are best. Regardless of that though, *they'd* better be prepared [mature and aware enough] to handle what can come out of that act =literally= and absolutely not be grossed out, or berate their "partner" when it happens.

It's just so much easier and safer to not engage in this at all. Sad.

[Ki****]

Like admittedly, I knew a few tricks to make it more tolerable, but this guy made it actually feel good and that was f****** weird for me. Like I knew that if I came I could tolerate it but I didn't have to come before he stuck it in it and somehow it works. I was like what the f*** kind of position are you pretzeling me into like I don't get what you're doing here, but if it works I'll go with it

[Ki****]

And yeah it worked

[Ki****]

Okay so so the lady who said somebody ruined it. You're not wrong because my first Dom f****** in the ass was six goddamn hours and I was like dude I don't do anal like this is not cool what you're doing I'm like take it out on one of your other subs. I'm not doing this and I was like yeah I don't do her in the ass because she cries and I'm like. Yeah if that's what you're trying to get me to do isn't it? I'm not going to cry for you b**** I know cry. I did cognitive behavioral therapy. I don't cry. I literally can't anymore. It's been brainwashed out of me

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, CuriousRose said:

I still prefer vaginal play. I do like using Toys for anal which adds to the pleasure. Typically toy wise, it would be something a bit smaller maybe vibration or one of the toys that has the capability to “thrust”- I do not like hard or metal anal toys at all.

I do like human contact but I also want to know ahead of time if anal play would be on the table. There is prep that goes into it to make sure everyone is relaxed etc.

Interesting, definitely anal play has to be discussed before I agree hygiene is key 

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6 minutes ago, NexumSange said:

Vaginal over anything else. Too many men DO NOT KNOW or CARE to know how to engage safely, let alone care about or bring pleasure to the other(s) involved.

Anal is a mood, and that mood doesn't happen unless the respect, proper mental exchange, and genuine CARE for Me as a person have been had.

Barriers are best. Regardless of that though, *they'd* better be prepared [mature and aware enough] to handle what can come out of that act =literally= and absolutely not be grossed out, or berate their "partner" when it happens.

It's just so much easier and safer to not engage in this at all. Sad.

I’m mature about what I like , I got supplies for the unforeseen it’ll be okay 😂 

[Deleted Member]

10 minutes ago, KittehKatGibson1982 said:

Like admittedly, I knew a few tricks to make it more tolerable, but this guy made it actually feel good and that was f****** weird for me. Like I knew that if I came I could tolerate it but I didn't have to come before he stuck it in it and somehow it works. I was like what the f*** kind of position are you pretzeling me into like I don't get what you're doing here, but if it works I'll go with it

Right sometimes it can be a specific position that opens the flood gates of joy 

[Deleted Member]

10 minutes ago, KittehKatGibson1982 said:

Okay so so the lady who said somebody ruined it. You're not wrong because my first Dom f****** in the ass was six goddamn hours and I was like dude I don't do anal like this is not cool what you're doing I'm like take it out on one of your other subs. I'm not doing this and I was like yeah I don't do her in the ass because she cries and I'm like. Yeah if that's what you're trying to get me to do isn't it? I'm not going to cry for you b**** I know cry. I did cognitive behavioral therapy. I don't cry. I literally can't anymore. It's been brainwashed out of me

6 hours is really crazy even for my butt crazy self 🤣 

[Ki****]

Like I didn't know what the hell he was trying to get me to do the first time. I was just like okay I'll go into whatever position and ask because honestly I'm a submissive and I'm happy to do whatever the f*** you want but don't hurt me man. He's like trust me just do what I'm telling you to do and it will work. I'm like how I don't know how but it did

[Deleted Member]

Depends on the mood and level of arousal.

[id****]

Exclusively anal over here 👋

[Ja****]

20 hours ago, Nursebrighteyes said:

Yeah this thing's not letting me see new comments. Sucks too because this was such a great topic.

I have the Problem too.
Go to Forum in the App, then BDSM Forum, search for the topic "So Tell me ..."
(This Info is in the First Post)
That way i can see all Messages.
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Greatings from Germany

[Deleted Member]

4 hours ago, idliketoseey0utry said:

Exclusively anal over here 👋

👋🏽 

[Sa****]

Vaginal play for sure, though I enjoy both I'd much rather have my pussy messed with

[Deleted Member]

On 1/13/2026 at 3:57 PM, idliketoseey0utry said:

Exclusively anal over here 👋

 

On 1/13/2026 at 3:57 PM, idliketoseey0utry said:

Exclusively anal over here 👋

Kink date ? 

[Tr****]

I just tried this recently I had always thought I woukd never and I absolutely do enjoy it
And I definitely cum from it. I could see possibly liking it just as much as my pussy.
Definitely recommend trying it.

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, redfield165492 said:

I just tried this recently I had always thought I woukd never and I absolutely do enjoy it
And I definitely cum from it. I could see possibly liking it just as much as my pussy.
Definitely recommend trying it.

When you tried it recently was it with toys or without ? Was Foreplay involved ?

[Tr****]

Of course lots of foreplay and very gentle and slow........ At first 😉

[Ro****]

Depends, without any foreplay or only anal, nope. With a partner that anticipates my needs beforehand,definitely. Never rush it.

[Deleted Member]

It is really great to see these comments as someone who loves anal more than anything but have had a hard time with women being receptive to it, especially as someone who understands the importance of and actively practices open, attentive communication, foreplay, lube, toys, and gives care for those who are new and/or too tight to dive right into. Really hoping to find someone like you wonderful women who enjoy it and appreciate the mindfulness and effort of one who wants your pleasure~

[BlueGrace]

I love anal. The anal orgasms are more intense than my clitoral orgasms. My Doms and I don’t use condoms because we don’t like the feel of them. We do about an hour of anal foreplay with vibrating toys and lubricant before penetration. That’s a necessity. It’s dangerous to jump into anal without preparation. I’m not interested in fissures and infections. Anal has always felt great to me because my Doms know what they are doing. We take our time with the vibrating toys and I have an anal orgasm before they go in. It’s important to go slow when penetrating any hole and use plenty of lubricant.