What’s more intimate: restraint or permission?

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So long story short I learned early restraint isn’t about only holding someone down.
It’s about knowing you could and choosing not to. I never rushed her or boxed her in. I gave space on purpose. Watched what she did with it. Every time she stepped closer on her own, it told me more than *** ever could.

I don’t ask twice. I don’t pressure either.
When I give permission, it’s calm. Casual. Almost quiet. That’s what changes things. She knows she can move… but she waits. Not because she’s stuck because she wants my go-ahead. That pause? That’s where the intimacy is.

Anyone can restrain a body.
But when someone looks at you, waiting to be allowed that’s choice. And choice always hits deeper than ***.

So conclusion I say both are equally intimate and needed

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This is fantastic. Choice is sexy and powerful especially when you can see another human chooses something that includes you in some form or way and so on. What you given here is a great way to filter those only looking for surface activity. Love it. 😀

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Permission. I prefer the psycholgical aspect over the physical.