Caregiver preferences?

[Ma****]

I'm curious about what all the caregivers out there look for in a little. For instance I'm really tall and I know some CGs prefer their little to be shorter/smaller than them.
What are some things you love and look for in your little, and what are some things you don't really like?

[be****]

For me, one thing I like to see is if they’re actually in touch with their inner child and how in touch they are. Then it makes it easier to start doing little activities such as coloring, things of that nature or incorporating stuffies.

[La****]

Physical appearance is not really a big deal to me. However, I do love the age range of my littles/middles to be around 8-13. Diaper play must be out of picture though. But I do love a pacifier. Im so attracted to sweetness, innocence, obedience and neediness. Plus point if they’re such a crybaby. The easier they cry, the more I love it.
Mundane wholesome activities are very fun to do together. So it should be an expected standard by my sub/littles. Not as a reward.

[No****]

Number one they’ve gotta know what being a little is. Lol I just spent a couple of days getting to know Little and when I asked her, what brings you to your little space, she asked me what is a little space.

She was a fraud and that was the first clue

[gr****]

Idk just like anything there personality. What n how often they get in lil space and what there lil age is What do they do or like doing in lil space. There are different lvls of extremes but just like anything kink does mean we have the same kink doesn’t mean we match up

[Deleted Member]

As a CG, height has never been a deciding factor for me. Energy matters way more than inches. I don’t need someone physically smaller I’m looking for someone who feels safe leaning into that softer, little space with me. Again, this is my preference. It’s always gonna be different with everyone, but for the most part, most should be following this guideline but you’re up to run into that one person that does like the physically smaller frame

[CG****]

I don't have size or body requirements in a little. I do prefer that their style be "cute" and not just behind closed doors. Dressing cute on dates and at home is a big plus. That doesn't mean always dressing "little" but little adjacent (for little ones reading "adjacent" is a big word for "next to" or "nearly"). I also want them to believe me when I say I want them to sit on my lap. You can be 6'5" or thikk but you are always little to a good Caregiver. I know what I'm asking for. The best way to read to a little, is with them on the lap.

[sz****]

Height and size are irrelevant , your comfort and ability to enter little space in my presence is what matters,

[hu****]

To me personally night and size don’t matter

[Bo****]

To add onto hunts message, as a little from my experiences in the community, being able to into that headspace around others in my eyes shows how deeply we trust you

[Bo****]

Id imagine its a must for them to being able to gladly open up to you and all that

[Sl****]

Height doesn't really factor for me. I mean, after all, everyone is little on their knees.

As for things I love or look for?
I enjoy a playful, whimsical little. To be able to imagine and play with them, occasionally remind them of things. I suppose I look for an escape from the harshness of the outside world and stresses, just like them. And being able to care for someone in a purely sweet way is lovely.

What I really don't like is a little who constantly stays bratty and negative all the time and doesn't know when it's time to be good and be pleasant to be around.

[Bo****]

Yeah, even i cant be bratty for the life of me. Sure when im in the mindset i get fussy when not cuddling but thats it. Dont help what is a turn on for me is genuine human affection and not sex or being an asshole lmao

[Do****]

As long as it's someone who enjoys being loved, pampered with affection and doesn't believe in personal space, I don't mind height, you could be 7 feet but still be my baby girl lol

[eb****]

I look for a good vibe if we click then it’s solid

[OU****]

It’s all about connection

[Ry****]

Just because you might be taller doesn't mean you should not be cared for. Weird behavior.

[Bo****]

Taller people wanna feel little too lmao, im 5'10" and love it myself

[Bo****]

Most littles i met before are 5'8" and below too

[Cc****]

I like that she is helpl@ss and dependent but I do not like when she talks back or fusses at me.

[Em****]

I think, ironically, maturity?

Ive met many littles who dont communicate or express what they want or JUST babytalk.

I want to feel appreciated and know whats happening sometimes too, not be just a "Giver of care" in that sense.

[ra****]

As something of a switch between the two, I would say not abusing the role/headspace as a scapegoat for any behavior or issues. Probably also understanding that they’re not the only ones who need to be cared for, Caregivers get tired too. I really wish more Littles would see their Caregivers as humans rather than just someone there for any minor inconvenience or entertainment. I don’t think size matters as long as they’re comfortable. One thing I will say, though is that it’s mildly discouraging to be turned away by a caregiver because part of why I go into that headspace is because of an identity disorder, and they don’t know how to handle it. I’m still there, just smaller with different preferences.