An experienced novice

[ba****]

I've been in the sex work industry for over 10 years. I know a lot about kink and I love to learn about people's kinks, but my experience acting on those desires is very limited. How do I engage more with a community that I've been adjacent to for so long?

[Deleted Member]

A friend invited me to a shrine gathering. They have a discord to discuss some of these such things

[fo****]

Trying new things and finding the ones you like will make it so much better

[PA****]

What I found was that being honest about what you want and someone who has a open mind and is non judgemental

[wy****]

Munches! Meet n Greets. You’ll find community.

[Do****]

I’m an audiophile

[ey****]

In short. You just show up.

There's already a lot of experience you can bring in and share (even though that's not a pre-requisite), while a lot you can get out of it.

Some from the sex industry have found mixed experiences when coming into munches/community/etc - some folk gets suspicious that you're looking for clients (some have done this to try to find some and it doesn't end well) and others assume you'll play with them (you're under no obligation to) but then a lot with laid down boundaries have positive experiences.

[sk****]

I say do it with a couple nervous and looking to explore all their kinks and possibly be shown others. You're welcome to spend an evening chatting with us.

[ge****]

The best advice I can give you is one that was given to me a long time ago. Stay curious and go to reputable sex club(s) near you. Go to an establishment where you can watch, observe and have the option to do just that or if you are looking to participate you can do that as well. In Vegas we have a few of these.

[Ro****]

There are a few groups in the area that I am in the have weekly rope classes let me know I'll give your some more information in private.