Anticipation is a wonderful aphrodisiac.

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So I was around for a year or so, started to work out who I really was, had a few meets, and made some friends/connections then WHAM covid reared its ugly head. For many, I know this pandemic caused issues, and complications, not just within kink. 

 

I saw a few members wisely point out that it gave us all time to work on new friendships within an online only basis, but I really struggled with it. Sure, connections were made, messages exchanged but for me on a personal level online play, sexting etc only holds so much value, and after time becomes very "meh." Generally, I always after some time seemed to lose interest  After all, there are only so many times you can say the same things before it all becomes a bit samey, and a little boring. This is one of the reasons I don't do online play, as for me I NEED to touch, and need physicality in all its wonderful forms, to reach any level of satisfaction.

 

A week to go, and lots of restrictions within the UK are to be lifted. I'm back to work, the gyms, bars reopen etc, which is great, but the key thing for me, is the kink scene will also be again opening up to some extent. Already I can feel a difference, already the anticipation is rising, and those"meh" feelings i mentioned are starting to recede. When chatting to others online, with a clear possibility that the very next day a meet could be on the cards really is awakening my kinkier side. 

 

Although it never went anywhere, my sexuality,  I suppose it felt like it was hibernating at times, although the cravings were still strong. A very frustrating time for me, but also I think for many of you too. I was discussing this with a friend a few weeks ago, trying to explain this, and she said "anticipation is a wonderful aphrodisiac," which hit home straight away, as she was completely right. Hopefully for many of us that anticipation of better times ahead, be it kink or vanilla, whichever skin you choose, will make all our days a little brighter 😊.

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I feel your frustrations Donny and like you like real time connections. The covid situation has tied us all up with frustration. There are many different ways people have had to adapt and accept that they have no control over it . The most important thing to tell yourself is that you are alive and kicking and have a future to explore . Your friends comment is true because all the wait will end and imagine how intense your first contact will be.🧨💥🧨