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[PinkKink101]

How do you know when it's right?  When you feel you've found the one that fits you and what you want.. How do you know?

[Sl****]

You can never know

[Ni****]

Even if your kinks match, there's still no guarantee that they're the right one for you, or you for them. It's why communication is so important, especially early on, when both should be learning all about each other - vanilla and kinky, to find out if you are both looking for the same thing. You can chat with two kink matched people and not feel a Connection with one, whereas you do with the other. But when you find that Connection - you'll know.