Younger men

[No****]

Im 43 and scared of younger men and also too old men. I give myself ten years give or take. Altho life is short if you got 20-30 years left to live and dont see marriage in your future… maybe i should? My question is… if youre a younger male what the heck why would you want an older woman versus someone cute pettite perfect younger ? It feels like a scam and this lady doesnt give away *** so that might be it? I dont have any *** guys lol sorry why do you message older women

[ho****]

I'd like to know the answer to this as well. I think they're doing it because younger people crave experience, similar to how I enjoyed much older men when I was 20.

[mo****]

The older the berry the sweet the fruit

[Gl****]

Honestly that's it. Older women are just as unique and interesting and wonderful as anyone else. I love the unique insights older women have. Not to mention the confidence and certainty. The knowledge of what they like and don't like and their willingness and ability to communicate.

[Bo****]

More experience than a younger woman. No games

[be****]

I can’t speak for all, but I find myself drawn to the maturity. Someone who doesn’t want to play games. Who knows themself and doesn’t have to traumatize anyone in the process. They can be more serious but also more fun. Patient.

[Su****]

Because felicia Rashaud and diane keaton have always been older than me

[Su****]

phylicia rashad

[co****]

I like being submissive to older women

[Da****]

4 minutes ago, GlasgowToy said:

Honestly that's it. Older women are just as unique and interesting and wonderful as anyone else. I love the unique insights older women have. Not to mention the confidence and certainty. The knowledge of what they like and don't like and their willingness and ability to communicate.

I have to agree with you

[ri****]

Mature women are sexy AF. Especially if they want you to submit to them.

[Gl****]

14 minutes ago, honeycrisp said:

I'd like to know the answer to this as well. I think they're doing it because younger people crave experience, similar to how I enjoyed much older men when I was 20.

See this is what I mean. I have never seen a younger woman quote Dostoyevsky - I may disagree with him and especially the implicit conclusions in crime and punishment but you promise a much more interesting conversation than most younger woman...

[DepressedSadKid]

Experience and alot of them don't play no games they know what they want also as someone turning 35 you kinda put in a box where going out with Women like 18 to 21 is kinda weird in society

[jj****]

Personally, I feel like young men have too much energy. Hit me up when naps are your favorite hobby 😂

[Or****]

Older women are more intense, they know what they want and have less complexes. Also sex with older women is much better

[Do****]

The simple answer is that older women are hotter than they’ve ever been, (mainly due to the increased population of woman in there 30s 40s and 50s not marrying, not staying married, or not have kids increasing over the last 10-20 years) they look better, take better care of themselves, and are more open/straightforward with what they want. But you may still be asking “but why not date a younger woman who maybe pretty.”, I’ll tell you why; those younger woman on dating apps especially have a lot of options being thrown at them all the time (older women do as well) so many that they can’t interact with them all. So as a man you’ll get left on read a lot because younger women in general selectively date and interact with who they want to date or sleep with, and when you do match and talk with a younger woman their communication skills are abhorrently bad. Either not being able to hold a conversation, bread-crumbing, not replying to your messages at all, pen-paling you, not talking you seriously as a potential dating option, or replying to you once then dropping off the face of the planet. I personally like older women not only because they look good, but because they know what they want (most of the time), a lot better at communicating, more likely treat you as a person rather than an opinion, and they are experienced. Both older and younger women have their pros and cons, but I rather not spend 20 more minutes comparing and contrasting them. I hope this explanation answers your inquired question.👍

[ha****]

The answer is maturity, point blank

[Sa****]

From my experience of older women is that the experience level is higher and there willing to be patient with you if you are learning how to pleasure them how they want to be. The other thing is there vibe is different most time it's straight to the point and not all the emotions or spending of *** to possibly get some or not. Older when just know there selfs better and pick and choose what there willing to accept or not.

[ma****]

Maturity, refinement, sophistication, intelligence, sensuality. Don’t reduce sexiness to a piece of ass. That does not have any meaning. If that ass doesn’t know how to tango with me, I am better off with a toy.

[Kr****]

As a woman, my opinions may differ. Younger guys didn't chase me until mid 20s I guess. Older guys always... since I was a ***. And I enjoyed older guys, women, couples. I enjoyed the naughty taboo aspect sometimes. Off limits. Younger women always pursued me.
Older women may be generally more available for casual dating or sex. Out of relationships, separated, vanilla lives, cheating. Not wanting to romantically involved, and not needing validation is true. Also much more comfortable sexually.
I don't date men, not in a romantic, committed, monogamous way. But as a *** and in my 20s, I was attracted to older. Now in my 30s, it has shifted past few yrs and I'm more open to younger guys. And the age gap has shrunk on the older men. I'm more open to women being older.
Make sense?
And older men, for obvious reasons want younger women. I find guys in 30s don't pursue women in 20s.... but 40s and 50s they want 30s.

[ES****]

Personally the reason I find it so hot is the experience that an older woman can bring to the bedroom. Also older women typically don’t judge as much as well as are more open minded from my experience.

[Kr****]

This is true, most often. We were little sluts as ***s and 20s, so my experiences were different lol.
For women, several factors. Slut shaming is real. Women have insecurities. Lack experience. Lack confidence.

[Deleted Member]

Mostly for me I tend to converse easier and have more meaningful conversions with people older. I’m 26 so people 21-28 tend to not have similar interests or similar ways of thinking as me. Idk why y’all are afraid of younger men 😂

[Kr****]

I think the OP was saying she feels younger men are not genuine with intentions pursuing older women. If she wants a LTR and one partner, she feels younger guys just target her for easy, casual encounters.
Not meaning to speak for her, just my interpretation

[Deleted Member]

That’s not about age that’s about morals, the kind of person ur persuing and their goals in life. Not every guy in their 20s is just trying to sleep around or fuck anything 😂