Younger men

[Kr****]

Nobody said that. Clearly you don't appreciate how she feels. Don't be so judgemental of how she feels.

[Deleted Member]

I’m not judgemental one bit 😂 I’m giving u the truth. Ur saying younger men just want causal encounters. I’m younger and don’t want that. So to group every man in their 20s as only wanting causal, bc that’s what you’ve encountered. Is ignorant to say the least

[Deleted Member]

Depends where u are, depends how u are perceived to men 20-28, depends what ur standards and attraction is, tons of outside factors

[Kr****]

Wow. You must attract a lot of women.
You seem like a wonderful person.

[Mo****]

I’m 49 and have found that younger men are way more communicative and eager to please than their older counterparts. Don’t believe what society puts out their desires for certain bodies and such. They are often drawn to your life experience, wisdom and patience and sex appeal. Now before yall get all upset I didn’t say all older men are awful. My cap was 35 and I recently had an encounter with someone who was in his late 20’s and was blown away. And let’s just say the STAMINA is unmatched 😉

[Bu****]

If you're implying that older women are expired, you seriously need to get a grip. It's not cool to hold patriarchal standards.

[Deleted Member]

15 minutes ago, Kryssie93 said:

Wow. You must attract a lot of women.
You seem like a wonderful person.

If ur looking for younger men on dating apps or at bars, then yes ur not finding men that want to settle down or open to dating someone older. I attract a lot of women bc I’m honest and genuine. But Ik why ur single at 45

[No****]

My experience with younger guys is “Don’t do it!”. I know that may be harsh but I’ve had a really bad experience. Different time, different profile where I was a lot more open with who I am. I got messaged by 20-something men all the time. I always said “no thank you” politely. But there was this one guy. He drew me in like a moth to a flame. We started texting and he convinced me to take a chance on him. Wrong move. I met him twice. I thought it was great. But he told all his buddies about this MILF he had found that gave great head and gave my number out. I was harassed for weeks even months afterwards. Everyone wanted their milf card. For me, never again. Too immature for me. More wanting notches then discreet adult fun.
I’m sorry for those younger guys that aren’t like this. But a lot are and it gives the rest of you a bad taste in a lot of us older women’s mouths.

[jayrule13]

I am a 55 year old man that was a big fan of older women when I was young. It had nothing to do with body image. It was about them not playing games, being secure in who they were, knowing what they wanted, and not playing games. Good or bad, they were straight shooters about everything. If they wanted a commitment or a one night stand or FWB, they were straightforward about it. In the bedroom, they knew how to give and receive pleasure and they told you what they liked and did not like. It was like a whole new world from women my age because I was mature for my own age. It was about confidence, self- esteem, knowing who they were, and being secure in themselves. They were not reliant on me to give them that, which made me more free to try to provide it. Their independence was already established.

[Kr****]

All she said, the OP.... was that she feels younger men are not genuine in their intentions. That's how she feels. She's uncomfortable. @@no1un nbsp;shares a story that many women experience.
The OP is seeking ltr. Not short term, casual fun.
That unfortunate part, is that @@no1un nbsp;is correct.... as women, we hear many experiences of things going sideways with younger.

[DarkArts1066]

Over the years, I’ve tended to find that older women have more presence. They know what they want, -AND how to get it.
Some I know can stop a conversation dead , simply by walking into the room.
THAT is power - and presence.

They have experienced a bit of life, have the battle scars and aren’t afraid to show them.

I’m attracted to younger women too sometimes, but I find them often too self centred and perfunctory.

If your favourite topic of conversation, is exclusively You, then we won’t have much in common. I like people who are well read, well travelled, flirt, have a sparkle about them, are capable of communicating using body language

That’s not to say there aren’t some incredible younger ladies out there - there are. But they do take a bit of finding..!

I also have a fetish for big, hanging breasts, and curves …… more mature women generally have bigger boobs 🤷🏻‍♂️

[th****]

8 minutes ago, jayrule13 said:

I am a 55 year old man that was a big fan of older women when I was young. It had nothing to do with body image. It was about them not playing games, being secure in who they were, knowing what they wanted, and not playing games. Good or bad, they were straight shooters about everything. If they wanted a commitment or a one night stand or FWB, they were straightforward about it. In the bedroom, they knew how to give and receive pleasure and they told you what they liked and did not like. It was like a whole new world from women my age because I was mature for my own age. It was about confidence, self- esteem, knowing who they were, and being secure in themselves. They were not reliant on me to give them that, which made me more free to try to provide it. Their independence was already established.

Amen. Older women know what they want and they don't play games. That is the biggest attraction

[Mr****]

I'll just put this here!!! "Older Women" By Ronnie McDowell!!!!

[Bl****]

Other than the *things* I experienced as a child that might have led to me developing that way as a method to deal with the supposed, innate trauma, older women are just straightforward. Thats it.

[ho****]

None of this is doing anything to disprove my conclusion: Men in their 20s hit on women in 30s/40s because they crave EXPERIENCE with someone more mature and communicative. But nevertheless, it's just for experience and not actually for a relationship. Anyone who claims otherwise is either lying, or desperately wants a relationship with ANYONE, and if all he can get is a older women then she'll do just as well as anyone else.

[Kr****]

This ^^^^. Was my point. When I supported OP. Of course there can be instances different, but the majority is this. She wants a connection. And she is afraid that the young men approaching her are not genuine in intentions.
We have fun with young guys all the time. I have one regular. But it's fun for me, not dating ltr.

[Deleted Member]

As a young man myself (20), I love older women! It’s always been a dream of mine to be pounced on by a cougar, leaving my body to someone with a lot more experience or someone that can make me feel smaller. It’s not a scam at all, and you cant be too old at all to be unattractive to a young male!

[ho****]

@kryssie93
Right. Exactly. Because even tho *he's* not thinking about it right now, *you* know there is a strong probability if you commit to that relationship, he'll wake up one day in 5-10 years and wonder why he's with this middle aged chick instead of the hot co-ed who's been sexting him on Instagram (or whatever these kids do these days!).

Like I get this all the time -- guys 25 years old who just don't understand that I won't look in another 5 years how I look now, and they'll inevitably either cheat or leave. OR, if he's really a good guy, he'll do neither ... But he'll hate me for making him feel stuck.

Seriously guys, just been fucking upfront. You want the milfy fling for learning experience, then be honest. There are many women who will go for that bc they just want a young hot stud for casual fun. But stop bs-ing about how you "Wanna get to know her."

[Kr****]

Right @@honeycrisp. nbsp;All the guys that posted on this thread totally missed what OP said ans how she feels.
That last guy even posted how he wants to be "pounced upon" lol.
OP wants ltr. Romance, committed, passionate, intimate and lasting.
Not all women fuck for fun.

[Bl****]

7 minutes ago, Kryssie93 said:

Right @@honeycrisp. nbsp;All the guys that posted on this thread totally missed what OP said ans how she feels.
That last guy even posted how he wants to be "pounced upon" lol.
OP wants ltr. Romance, committed, passionate, intimate and lasting.
Not all women fuck for fun.

It wouldn't be impossible. But I do have to admit, a lot of guys do go for that, and their concern is valid. But there are guys who wants a relationship.

[Se****]

Any *** in age younger or older is valid to the one in the dark.
"The oldest and strongest kind of *** is *** of the unknown.
I am learning every day to allow the space between where I am and where I want to be to inspire me and not terrify me." - Ross
The loss of control, the vulnerability of the soul, and the terrifying beauty of being consumed into complete bliss comes with trust that's earned🌹

[mr****]

I think most younger men see it only for a sexual experience because a sexy milf is a thing for sure and I’d also be very skeptical if a younger guy said he wanted more so I’m with ya on that but you also said petite and a lot of men don’t want a skinny girl I know I don’t

[mr****]

6 hours ago, Kryssie93 said:

I think the OP was saying she feels younger men are not genuine with intentions pursuing older women. If she wants a LTR and one partner, she feels younger guys just target her for easy, casual encounters.
Not meaning to speak for her, just my interpretation

Yes i agree with you exactly and from a male perspective

[De****]

I like older women because the thought that they are giving themselves to a younger less experienced guy is so sexy to me. They don't see age as a social status in that moment, but as some satisfaction sexually . I believe we're all souls of different ages yet what is a few years in the span of infinity? I get there is a stigma but I see it as female/ male sharing something sacred that deserves it's proper respect, monogomausly or non, in lust/love and/or needs. It's sex, wonderful, intimate, nasty, raunchy, pure sex unless you make it otherwise. And a steel hard NO on participating with an underage minor on either side of the fence!!!

[Mr****]

So this is a long winded personal perspective from a personal experience but possibly some insight and possibly the reason a lot of young guys are into older women, maybe a lot of them had an experience like me and it opened there eyes to something other then the normal expectations …When I was younger I had a neighbor and she was drop dead gorgeous, she was Mrs Robinson x10 and she would call me to her back yard when sun tanning by her very nice in ground pool, she asked me to help out tanning oil on her, as 17 yr old man it was a dream come true, she wasn’t the 17-21 yr old girls that are at there ***k, but she was calm, no games, explained very calmly that she was curious as to how I felt about giving her a massage (she knew I wanted to do massage therapy as a side job) she even offered to pay for the massage, I obviously was thrilled to massage her forget ***… while massaging her she felt it was necessary to take her two piece bathing suit off. Explains how she hated tan lines and wanted me to feel free to massage everything and not feel bad if I felt knots or stress the bathing suit was covering, especially her butt cheeks, as I continued she was saying things that were so flattering and complimentary, she even made sounds that sounded like she was having intercourse. I got really concerned because i am fully erect now and tell her, i may need to run home real quick I need to change (I was wearing the cargo shorts version of bathing suits, there was no hiding it) she did the one thing I was hoping she wouldn’t do and shot up and looked at me to ask why, she stopped, and smiled and very comfortingly said, you don’t need to change, you need to take care of that (I don’t know the rules of what I cannot say or how graphic I can get, or if anyone cares, I’m just trying to explain the reason younger men like older women, or why myself along with other friends did) she must of spent about 90 minutes, showing me things, that weren’t just wam bam and it’s over, she told me what to do to make the experience an amazing experience for both sides, she was the one that told me, if you wanna have a good reputation with the women always make sure they are taken care of and do it at least twice before you get off because once you get off, you won’t wanna do anything for 10-15 min when you get older, the pleasure and lessons I learned from someone so experienced, was amazing and I learned after that that I could go to bars and clubs and I felt comfortable with mature women and they seemed to like me and because of my experience I was ahead of the game, I still enjoyed and enjoy young women as well.