Good morning…

[Se****]

When “good morning” doesn’t just mean good morning, it means you woke and your first thought was of me. It means that even though we’re hundreds of miles apart you wanted to check in so that I know, no matter what the day brings, I was your first thought. It means that you needed to reaffirm your connection with me before you could, or even wanted to, commence your day. It means you instinctively reached for me the same way you would if you opened your eyes and I was lying next to you.

Your “good morning” gives me pause, it realigns my spirit and centres me in a way so small and seemingly inconsequential many would laugh and fail to understand it, but it’s paramount to me. It brings me a sense of safety and release - he woke, he’s here, we’re here, it’s all ok. He reached for me and I am not being burdensome or needy. It replenishes my emotional “bucket”, depleted by the end of every day, and it fills my heart with joy.

But, what about the day when your “good morning” doesn’t come… what then? When I’ve become accustomed to waking to you starting my day, when I want and expect my smile from your “good morning” message. When my smile doesn’t happen and my heart aches a little, what then? Have I become lesser to you? Am I unimportant or forgotten, out of sight out of mind? Have other things so fully occupied your mind that you do not need me to start your day or is someone else starting your day? These are the thoughts that flood my brain  

It would be easy for me to reach out and say it, wouldn’t it? To be the one to say it first and I will, when yours doesn’t come but I hate the pressure I feel that brings to you. Do those words mean the same to you as they do to me? I doubt it, not because you are lesser or feel differently to me or are lacking in any way but because you are more. You are more in the best way, you are more in the way I want to be more - you are reassured by us without the need for “good morning”, I yearn to feel that way.

To most it’s just words, nothing important, we say it a thousand times a day - but not to me, never to me.

Your “good morning” is the kiss that wakes me, the smile that softens my face, your arms holding me, the breath of fresh air into my lungs to begin a new day, my calm before the mania of my world.

Your “good morning” is my everything but… if you wanted to, you would.

I know the why. I, logically and intellectually, understand the reasons but the ache for the lack of “good morning”…

Well, how silly does that make me?

And what about “good night”? We’ll see.  

Love,

X

[Mi****]

And that’s exactly why your “good morning” matters too.
Not because I’m keeping score, but because some people become part of the rhythm of your day before you even realize it happened.
There’s something beautiful about being the first thought on someone’s mind — especially in a world where everyone is distracted by everything.
I don’t think it’s silly at all. I think it just means your heart loves deeply and notices absence just as much as presence.
And honestly… being wanted that way is rare :)

[Se****]

8 minutes ago, Mikeyvee said:

And that’s exactly why your “good morning” matters too.
Not because I’m keeping score, but because some people become part of the rhythm of your day before you even realize it happened.
There’s something beautiful about being the first thought on someone’s mind — especially in a world where everyone is distracted by everything.
I don’t think it’s silly at all. I think it just means your heart loves deeply and notices absence just as much as presence.
And honestly… being wanted that way is rare :)

This is an interesting way of thinking about it. I don’t see my words or messages as mattering or being important, yet I feel needy for wanting what I want and ***ful of giving it back in case of becoming too much. 

[safespace78]

Its a basic courtesy, unfortunately this seems to be somewhat lacking more and more. Many subs can feel insecure and ***, and if 2 words can go any length to helping them feel wanted then do it. Show them theyre special.

[Re****]

Very nice.

[be****]

Hello sparkles

[safespace78]

If you are lucky enough to have someone special in your life, you do everything you can for them. If youre a dom, don't make someone chase you, thats not what its about. A lot of people can learn from these comments here.

[Zo****]

I love it

[be****]

Omgosh. Honey I’m sick and shaking plz excuse errors. Yr words touched me. You write with such eloquence. Absolutely beautiful. I’ve been divorced 39 yrs and have wanted someone to love me like that my whole life. I’m so sorry yr going thru this. I hope your heart finds what it’s searching for. Take care. Laura

[br****]

Yess your hot asf xx

[re****]

Also means you have someone a total reason to be breathing still the next day

[In****]

I love good morning texts. I agree with what you said. It might just be the most simplest two words, but it does show that someone’s thinking about you even on the slightest level enough to say good morning because not everyone says good morning.

[ty****]

This is one of those, never actually thought of this but knew it was true. Great post

[PL****]

This! I've tried to express this and the importance and impact of a simple "good morning" and it's meaning. You phrased it perfectly! Thank you!

[Se****]

13 minutes ago, PLEASEandTEASEme said:

This! I've tried to express this and the importance and impact of a simple "good morning" and it's meaning. You phrased it perfectly! Thank you!

You’re very welcome x

[lo****]

Very well wrote hopefully someone thats oblivious to things as subtle as that could read and maybe take something away from it.

[Deleted Member]

It is the *** of getting used to that I run away from getting used to those Good Morning! and GN messages 😩 heart ache is real