For short term or long term?

[Su****]

I don't have anything against people's preferences, just that I don't like when they text me coming off too strong and really my to CC

[Su****]

2 minutes ago, SubmissiveNeko23 said:

I don't have anything against people's preferences, just that I don't like when they text me coming off too strong and really my to CC

Coming off too strong and really imposing, especially when I made myself clear that I'm looking for something serious, the amount of text I get about male doms being really horny and saying such vulgar words

[am****]

I came here open to a lot of things...but truly, ultimately I wanna find my person...45 yo single mom for over a decade, im weird and freaky and this place makes me feel more normal....why wouldnt I wanna find my person here??

[jinxed]

2 hours ago, sinfulsub said:

 

This!! Or they're 5876 miles away!

 Unfortunately very true.. Which could be worked around but only if both can invest the time and attention needed to keep a long distance connection alive. 

[jinxed]

2 hours ago, amanda9218 said:

 im weird and freaky and this place makes me feel more normal

I love this app for the exact same reason, but I found this same welcoming acceptance at the munch I'm regularly going to now and meeting real people in a beer garden to have the craziest kink-related conversations is a level up from this here, so I can only recommend going to one in your area. Also, chances are high that you meet someone there or through another event that you find out about there. As others have said time and time again: getting out there and meeting actual people is a more enrichening way to go about it than getting caught up in fantasy connections on here that never become real. A bit of a waste of time somehow.  

Edited June 21 by jinxed

[ey****]

17 hours ago, Wallsdeep said:

This app practically begs people to write about themselves, and somehow half the profiles are:

Photo.

Existence.

End of profile.

Meanwhile my awkward ass is trying to start conversations with:

“Hey there… do you, um… walk?”

this might seem like a wild take - but - if someone has a blank profile with nothing you can really go off... you don't need to message them.  If they're still in the process of setting up a profile then it can come across as desperate. If they've started then decided it's not for them then you're wasting time.

and even if they did reply - odds are against you on compatibility 

It's much better to kinda use patience and wait for the more completed profile you have something to work with

[ey****]

22 hours ago, Inchantriss said:

I have a small question up for discussion and its nothing bad or anything but- ive come onto this app expecting to talk to someone and actually start somthing long term without issue, but most of the people that keep popping up are mainly short term/ or just not in my interest bracket... and its 80% of my feed.

sadly, whatever you're looking for there's always going to be a minority of compatible people

It is however unfortunate how many people seek easy hook ups, when, I'm not saying hook ups don't or shouldn't exist in kink - but - that is something typical with long term basis.    I guess this does often cause an issue because going into something and feel to commit long-term is a big ask and can cause struggles when things seemingly don't work - so sometimes it is best to teat thigns natural 

[Th****]

How did you all find a munch or party ?
Do you google munches in your area ???

[Mo****]

Long term relationship 💘 is the new

[ey****]

17 minutes ago, TheRock123 said:

How did you all find a munch or party ?
Do you google munches in your area ???

yes

[La****]

It’s for both. The nature of dating app is most ppl would use it for seeking instant nut. But it doesn’t mean ppl who’s looking for serious connection don’t exist. Just take way more patience to find like minded ones. I’m one of them. Be clear with what you want always from the very first conversation. Good luck.