What was your Ah Ha moment?

[de****]

My first thoughts are milkshakes and boys followed by baking with the word vanilla. Who ever coined this term anyway? It seems like a plot to make you feel less than for enjoying something other than a missionary position.

[Ch****]

About a year ago I discovered the NSFW side of reddit. What.An.Eye.Opener I knew right then I'd never look at things the same again. All the things everyone had told me were wrong or perverted or "only in porn" were being openly discussed by everyone. I spent my life hiding things that turned me on, secretly fantasizing in shame and I was suddenly thrust into this head space of everyone lied to me all those years.

[Ch****]

6 minutes ago, colliers34554 said:

About a year ago I discovered the NSFW side of reddit. What.An.Eye.Opener I knew right then I'd never look at things the same again. All the things everyone had told me were wrong or perverted or "only in porn" were being openly discussed by everyone. I spent my life hiding things that turned me on, secretly fantasizing in shame and I was suddenly thrust into this head space of everyone lied to me all those years.

On top of that my wife of 25 years was as vanilla as could be, a couple basic toys were as far as she would go. I'll never do that again. Whoever I'm with long or short term has to be completely sexual compatible with me.

[jinxed]

When I was a ***ager and discovered some  books in my father's library. "The joy of Sex" bored me after a few minutes, but there was an anthology of ***tings about sex throughout the centuries. The ones that got me were of dukes whipping naked women stacked on top of each other or a police officer penetrating a busty blonde woman with his baton. These pictures were the foundation of my sexual fantasies. 

If you're interested in the history of sexual depictions: the sex museum in Amsterdam has a lot of those exact pictures on display. I couldn't believe it when I saw them there! It was like a trip into my ***age years. Just got to find them in between the less complex and much less historically relevant porn photographs and 'statues'. 

[en****]

We were talking away, I didn't know what I was meant to say.
I thought "I'll say it anyway"...
"Today is just another day to find you"
She was shying away so I said "I'll be coming for your love,ok"


She didn't... take on me.
Or take me on.
I was gone
In a day or....twoooooo