What is your ritual?

[me****]

I actually really like this question...

I think there are levels to it, as with so many things in life.

I like to start about a week out, establishing a connection, gathering bits and pieces about how my partner is feeling, what they might need socially, emotionally, and physically. Also it's a good time to get an update on any rules/boundaries. All while building anticipation mentally.

Leading up to the few days before I like to start preparing physically, hydrating, eating clean, supplementing beets and other nitrogen rich foods. It leads to me feeling better, having better stamina, and overall go in to the scene with more confidence.

Day of is all hygiene. I like to groom myself to my partners liking, as well as tailor my cologne to what they may enjoy. I also trickle down conversation on the day of, which I find gives some time and space for my partner to further build some anticipation.

Driving to the location I always try to match the playlist to the vibe. Is it a cuckolding situation? More hype music. Is it a party vibe? It's gonna be lil John. Is it more of an intense therapy fuck? More of a calm, relaxed set.

Connecting. From the time I enter the space I know I need to command the room. A Single submissive? I'm stern and engaging right away. Either pinning against the wall or hand around her throat...or both. Physically I'm dominating her space, but I ask calmly if they're ready. In a couples situation I start more charming and warm, engage the male first and then proceed to the above mentioned rituals.

The last step of my ritual is to have my partner bent over, facing away. A** exposed for a spanking. I like to gauge how they react to my physical touch. Calibrating how hard I can spank, grab, bite. But also gauging what their body is craving. This also allows me to undress slowly, build anticipation, and tease. From there the scene varies based on what my partner is needing/wanting.

TLDR: Gather information. Update rules. Diet and hygiene. Consent. Warm up and Play