For subs only: the switch!

[xR****]

This is for people who originally identified as subs. Not people who always identified as doms or switches. Hear me out, there is a reason for this.

Have you ever dommed?
What was your experience like?
Would you consider doing it again?

As always, I'll go first:

Most of my life, my partners were vanilla. It was boring. The few times we got into any dynamic, I was always asked to dom them. I couldn't do shibari, but I got good at almost every other type of rigging. It wasn't hard. It was exciting! Or I thought it was.

It was the prepping that was exciting to me. The foreplay. The putting everything in place. The actual act? It was boring. Mundane. The actual part where I was taking control? I was on edge, constantly worrying about everything. I couldn't relax, I couldn't enjoy it. It was like trying to walk through a floor covered in Pringles without ever breaking one. The only enjoyment was When my partner came. I loved that. I never did. But, I didn't care. When I finally got to sub for someone, holy fucking shit. It was relaxing. Freeing. I felt floaty and it was just right!

Would I ever dom someone again? If they are a friend and if the mood strikes. It's rare. But, you know? Sometimes having a good friend you can switch with, sometimes you just ..want them. Someone who knows and understands it really isn't my role. But, outside of that? No way. I figured out my place. 🥰

[li****]

Honestly being submissive and letting someone do THR planning for you is probably the least strsss ful things it’s so nice to just know everything is sorted

[go****]

I love being a sub, I dont have to control everything or worry about how I look or putting a mask on my face. Unfortunatelly thwre are lots of fake doms making my and other subs experince awfull. Being sub does not mean being totally okav with 0 connection and low effort hookups. We are not piece of meats.

[li****]

Omg girl I get it the amount of guys and “ goddesses “ that try to make me do anything like no I have kinks and limits it’s not hard

[go****]

Yeah same only if our limits-boundries and kinks are similar then we can share a nice time

[li****]

I love your hair btw toatly off topic 🤭

[go****]

Thank I can only give the compliment back^^

[li****]

I would dm but it doesn’t let me 🤭