My kinky scale is flexible

[Ma****]

One thing I learned about myself very early into my kinky lifestyle is that I am highly turned on by what turns on my partner.

Which leads me into my post. One of my current partners is into extreme degradat1on, humi1iation and impact. The things I call her and say to her would make the majority of people not be interested in playing with me because they would assume that’s what I need to enjoy play.

I have a FetLife account and have posted some more tamer pics of this partner. However, whenever I start talking to someone new, I always have to preface the conversation with, “I don’t need all of that to have fun”. I have amazing experiences with partners into very light impact or none at all. As long as I know my partner is turned on by me and genuinely wants to please me, then I am very happy.

I have been able to go very dark and intense with some partners and very light and passionate with others. I love each for what it has to offer me and her.

Does anyone else have this ability where their partners kinks are what turns you on? Do you even have personal kinks that turn you on? Just curious if others are out there like me.

[Ph****]

I am BERY much this same way. I’m sort of a chameleon in the bedroom, changing to suit the desires of my partner.

[Ne****]

I can understand that. It's not necessarily my partner's kinks per se, but the reaction I get from them, that is the base for my enjoyment of kink. Making my partner happy and excited turns me on a LOT.

[Lf****]

Yep, I'm the same. To my understanding, it's kind of a "reaction fetish" and I consider myself a "pleasure dom".

Not a fan of labels, but maybe that also resonates with you.

[JM****]

One thing about me my kinky and kinks is loving my partner what she or a couple wants or needs. Every thing from Role Play to Cuckold. If I have a couple to love and care about and possibly play with. I’ll submit to their group desires .
I want to talk about risks . If you are a very sexual person woman or couple. I want to encourage everything from impact play to ***. I just want to play with and be more sexual with you than anything.

[be****]

I understand 😛