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[wh****]

One Dominatrix lady published a list of tasks she makes her subs do, and this one caught my eye: “Submit a report detailing your weekly efforts, mistakes, and areas for improvement”. I find it quite interesting, the desire to do corporate performance review as a kink play. It eroticises this specific form of submission life is already full of. Mastering the trauma of wage labor by staging it under your own contract? Finally getting punished for all inner voice blames you for? Or how do you think it works? Metabolising capitalism? Staging the contemporary form of middle class slavery? Many thoughts

[Ne****]

I don't think weekly reports are a form of corporate ***... But then again I don't hate paperwork.
Frankly, I think it can be used as a great tool for self-reflection. In all likelihood, this domme wants to use that information to enrich her play. Consider something that you might feel badly about, like, I don't know, not doing laundry often enough. You'd get to express that, then the shame of sharing it, then punishment (with the associated pleasure that comes with it), then, during aftercare, you'd get the opportunity to reflect on whether or not that's a big deal and take steps to correct it or let it go entirely.
Seems healthy enough to me.

[JM****]

Can psychological be one . I feel as if I am getting beaten daily . It’s not a Dom or Domme .
It’s bad luck or just myself . Every time I move forward . I get knocked down over and over again.
I’m already getting panic attacks. Daily anxiety now .
The stress is getting to me. Just putting this on the table .
When is it going to be my time? 

[ar****]

I'm reading that from a whole other angle, one of her trying to make her subject work on a plan to reflect & improve themselves.

Perhaps when she notices improvement, she may reward them, and punish them when they are slacking.

[Godfather_87]

Maybe the real kink here is your absolute inability to handle a basic administrative task without crying about the bourgeoisie

[ho****]

Bro real talk this Aint the place for whining. Call awambulance

[Fu****]

I dont think there is some "end stage capitalism" rubbish going on, but "write down what you did that you are happy about and what you are unhappy with is just sensible. I prefer a 4 square, good / bad & did / didn't do.

Depends in your dynamic, but its a good way to make sure every one understands exactly

[sa****]

Lmao, this is like what I do for A.A daily 🤣

[le****]

Sounds to me like she's trying to have her clients gain something from their time together other than sexual gratification.

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2 hours ago, san-rafael33941 said:

Lmao, this is like what I do for A.A daily 🤣

I was thinking the same! Before I go to sleep at night…

[PL****]

There is an app called "obedience" my doms/domes and I use that actually keeps track of all of this and more. For me as the sub I find it to be an amazing way to motivate me, build trust, respect, and keep track when life gets busy or in the way. It helps us remember what are roles are and provides us with opportunities to grow ina and out of the bedroom.

[ja****]

I can't even imagine taking orders from a woman like this LOL

[wh****]

14 hours ago, Nerddasespadad said:

I don't think weekly reports are a form of corporate ***... But then again I don't hate paperwork.
Frankly, I think it can be used as a great tool for self-reflection. In all likelihood, this domme wants to use that information to enrich her play. Consider something that you might feel badly about, like, I don't know, not doing laundry often enough. You'd get to express that, then the shame of sharing it, then punishment (with the associated pleasure that comes with it), then, during aftercare, you'd get the opportunity to reflect on whether or not that's a big deal and take steps to correct it or let it go entirely.
Seems healthy enough to me.

I see your point. Surely it’s a great tool. That’s why you hire a manager and a coach for it, to watch your processes and help you reach the goals. But I’m talking about kinky joy here, and I mean the joy for both parts, not domme providing services to sub for their healthy benefit, you know :)

Mind you, I’m not saying it’s a bad game or anything. I just feel there’s something worthy to reflect on in it.

[wh****]

13 hours ago, Godfather_87 said:

Maybe the real kink here is your absolute inability to handle a basic administrative task without crying about the bourgeoisie

Cool. Talk to me one more time and I report you. I blocked you for a good reason, don’t approach me again.

[lu****]

Yesterday at 03:51 AM, PLEASEandTEASEme said:

There is an app called "obedience" my doms/domes and I use that actually keeps track of all of this and more. For me as the sub I find it to be an amazing way to motivate me, build trust, respect, and keep track when life gets busy or in the way. It helps us remember what are roles are and provides us with opportunities to grow ina and out of the bedroom.

That app is awesome! Kink aside, my partner and I use it all the time to keep us on track with daily tasks.

[PL****]

10 hours ago, luxpupster said:

That app is awesome! Kink aside, my partner and I use it all the time to keep us on track with daily tasks.

Right, Im obsessed with it!

[br****]

so wait, the dom is my micromanaging boss? 😂

[Eu****]

i mean, with proper dynamic can also build a mindset and it can also reveal in time stuff about you.

[Wi****]

I want to have this kind of dynamic with someone. It would be helpful in my life.

[JM****]

Published tasks wow that’s different mindset but different

[Pe****]

You're overreacting to simplicity. The reason a performance review exists is the reason its done. To improve