What matters the most to you?

[ki****]

If you can pick one trait to have in all your future partners, what would it be? And why?
It can be sexual, emotional, intellectual or physically or a minute of multiple, whatever u like
I'd love to learn more about different things to be appreciated and celebrated and how you choose/like to connect with others.
I also think it'll be a fun discussion lol

[SL****]

Loyalty, or emotional intimacy

[Th****]

Good at eating out😂😂😂 if you can’t make me cum on your tongue I’m probably never going to listen to the words coming out of your mouth in the future🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ it should be a basic, but I swear some guys think they’re great at it and fall miserably short. 😂😂😂

[pu****]

They express their Enthusiasm/passion

[ki****]

Authenticity in the relationship

[Deleted Member]

It would the effort someone puts in. It’s easy to find people that are good at certain skills. It’s a challenge to find someone that rebuilt cares enough to always get up and try. This could in kink or in relationship of some type

[ph****]

I would love to have someone who can actually match my sex drive, and is into me as much as I am into them. Usually they either dont wanna do it as much as id like, or they're not into exploring kinks like me. I have yet to find a woman who wants it as much as I do lol

[ld****]

someone who is open-minded in general because all other things will follow. frankly you wrote a good question and hit major categories. most don’t even think about emotional or mental.

[Am****]

Willlness to exempt and trying someone kink. I’m very into cnc bondage ***d at time kink with submissive woman. I love when woman are actual willing to try play and push their limits to try and please me. Yes I will stop when told to for sure but love when someone dose something to try and make me have the best experience for me. My head a bit twisted. If I’m told hwy stop I will stop but love seeking ladies push thenselvfs

[Se****]

For me, it is a excellent sense of humor. A sense of humor can lighten up any issue! Nothing is absolute but I myself have a dry sarcastic sense of humor. I am constantly teasing and making some points vividly clear at the same time! I like my chosen Submissives to give as good as they take. Even as a Dominant this gives one equal quality that I admire!!!

[La****]

Good character and depth. They need to at least able to meet or match me where I’m at on soul level. If these things aint match, nothing would work. The romance won’t even spark, let alone awaken the sexual primal instinct. Just won’t get me in heat.
And oh, the childlike innocence/playfulness. That needs to be present too.

[Mo****]

Someone who enjoys their pussy licked and very wetting cummer

[Deleted Member]

Authentic and Ethical would be wonderful!

[Ma****]

Honesty/Trust

[PL****]

For me it's everything. I want someone who can meet my desires and allow me to help meet his. But this includes having a relationship with that individual, a friendship. Then sprinkle in intelligence and emotional intelligence, and some fun, man id be happy for life.

[JackJonesHull]

An authentic honest joyful open ethical sense of adventure.

[Da****]

A properly firing set of synapses

[gi****]

Someone who love oral both giving and receiving

[Br****]

Honesty

[Br****]

Physical: a big healthy ass on everyone FOREVER!

[Do****]

Being emotionally available to their own thoughts n feelings as well as others on top of being honest

[Rahulforf]

Depends on how much time they can make for you. Try to understand eachother and listen properly. Show the warmth and care

[Ha****]

She should love cuddling and kissing as much as I love it.

[Lo****]

Be emotionally mature, stable, and in-check while possessing the kind of patients and understanding I need them to have while I work thru mine.
(The BPD childhood trauma creates is a real bitch to sort out as an adult)

[Th****]

Deep seated need to be submissive