To Protect Your Energy

[vv****]

In an age of hookup culture, disingenuous ENM claims, and constant consumption how are we protecting our energy going into an encounter? When the discussions are had, the boxes are checked, the experience is over and the silence settles. How do we quell the yearning after something has been awakened?

[cl****]

You go and fucking do it!

[Ki****]

Re-enter, come back to yourself and your energy. I like the idea of planning a self love date after an encounter. Reconnect with friends. Bdsm can let us expiernece some big energy, finding ways to come back to our authentic state is so key in being stable through what we expiernece.

[on****]

Don't be hard on yourself or partner(s) for mistakes *& have open honest communication🤷‍♂️ best i got!

[Wo****]

Loves me the word choice - disingenuous

[UrsaMajor]

You guys are having encounters?

[Ki****]

This is very intriguing to me. I feel that to some extent that the tit for tat as it were the learning of the shared interest and the newness are all here in the controlled environment of the chat!

The meeting is the goal but the anticipation and excitement of the dance are great when you find a match to your wit and wiles! Holmes to your Moriarity the yin/yang! Then the brain will begin to sidetrack you what if we just keep it on the page what if meeting ruins everything? The what ifs kill everything from great ideas to endless romance! It is a quandary✌️

[Didz]

Thank you! I have no answer but I’m glad the discussion is being had and I’m finally on the side of fet that seems to get the quest! You don’t quell yearning once awakenings occur though. They just are there now. If a dynamic ends it ends and we carry this new piece of us forever. It’s beautiful really. I embrace it and try to live in the now, I do not chase it though I do seek it. Great Discernment will lead to great experiences.

[Ja****]

Sexual energy released during orgasm is sacred so be careful who you give it to and expect whatever intention it’s used for unless you can control the energy that you release. Iykyk sex/chaos 🪄 is powerful weather you/they realize what is happening or not

[an****]

First part, use protection. Both literally and metaphorically. We are always looking for the snake. But never for the ones that come with true and pure intentions that unintentionally create harm. Use barriers, boundaries, and barricades. Make your comfort your castle.

Second part, you don't, you don't erase the high score, you respect it, and you train to keep beating it until your goal changes then you grow that way.