Introducing "Training"

[Ro****]

Has anyone got experience introducing training into your Dom/Sub dynamic?
What did you start with?
Where have you progressed too?

[ho****]

My partner and I were doing BDSM General Education and once we had gotten through that we were going to focus on slave and personalization training, but life has a funny way of making adulting more important so its still a work in progress. Highly recommend training for every P/E Dynamic though. And I've trained plenty of my old partners too.

[Deleted Member]

For me… I trained my subs how to take it deep in their throat before I do any other training. Combination of throat training and waking me up daily with her mouth.

[Ra****]

Communication of their likes, dislikes, your likes and dislikes interest expectations

[sh****]

My wife have been trained. Depends on. What you want and how far. There are no safety words just easy rough slow. NO means no more this end and never again.

[SE****]

Training is extremely natural for me. It’s a broad topic so the ideas you need to have as you apply it to your situation are:
1. What is the desired outcome (for both parties).
2. Does the Dom know their sub well. Likes, dislike, limits on how far they can be pushed and for how long.
3. Success will depend on how well you can connect point 1 to motivation (ex: the things in point 2)

[Eu****]

training to me won't ever work if the person involved are not genuinly emotionally invested. And the twist is that when you are that invested you know exactly what to do and how to react right there in the flow of things.