Yoni healing

[jinxed]

Inspired by a weekend retreat with the most wonderful women and friends of mine, I want to really get to know and heal my vagina. So far this will include yoni gazing to get to know her, steaming her to cleanse and pamper her, massaging her to release trauma within her. I've found great videos on youtube with amazing gazing, steaming and massaging techniques.

But I was wondering what else I could do to get in touch with her, heal her and just take care of her. 
Any ideas or experiences would be very very welcome! 

[jinxed]

And I'd actually prefer answers from women about this, but of course I can't stop men from answering and telling a woman what to do and how it should feel because they think they are experts.. 

[theSir_ObservingU]

I work with energetic. Try breathing to your yoni. Sitting comfy. Breath in slightly tighten your yoni. Breath out release her completely and keep your breath 10% ish deeper than usual for 10-12 breaths. Focus on the release being a letting go. In your mind it’s a pumping motion. ( men can do this too but better for men to be sitting on a chair with treaties hanging. ) This promotes grounding and self awareness.

[Sv****]

PLEASE be careful especially with steaming etc. I ve known quite a few women who fell for all kinds of woowoo techniques and ended up with UTIs and other gyne issues 😥 in my opinion and experience, the best you can do for your intimate health is trust that your body knows how to “clean” itself, and any issues shall be solved by a doctor 🤷‍♀️

[theSir_ObservingU]

Sorry. I am a man but I work with woman all the time and have had many of them comment this works well for them.

[jinxed]

1 hour ago, Sve25 said:

PLEASE be careful especially with steaming etc. I ve known quite a few women who fell for all kinds of woowoo techniques and ended up with UTIs and other gyne issues 😥 in my opinion and experience, the best you can do for your intimate health is trust that your body knows how to “clean” itself, and any issues shall be solved by a doctor 🤷‍♀️

Thank you for the advice!  I've read about several potential issues with steaming, including burns and disrupting the balance within. So I'm thinking more of a rather superficial, warmish and short steaming. More sauna than deep cleanse as the idea is not to stress her out but just pamper her. 

[Mi****]

Ngl that sounds really retarded

[at****]

57 minutes ago, Mike7 said:

Ngl that sounds really retarded

you should choose not to comment. it becomes a mirror.

[Ra****]

Would you like yoni massage?

[jinxed]

7 hours ago, Mike7 said:

Ngl that sounds really retarded

 This actually made me laugh. And honestly, everybody is completely entitled to his or her opinion. And 'retarded', what a funny word to use! Thanks for this little giggle! 

[jinxed]

11 hours ago, theSir_ObservingU said:

I work with energetic. Try breathing to your yoni. Sitting comfy. Breath in slightly tighten your yoni. Breath out release her completely and keep your breath 10% ish deeper than usual for 10-12 breaths. Focus on the release being a letting go. In your mind it’s a pumping motion. ( men can do this too but better for men to be sitting on a chair with treaties hanging. ) This promotes grounding and self awareness.

This actually sounds beautiful. Thank you!

[theSir_ObservingU]

5 minutes ago, jinxed said:

This actually sounds beautiful. Thank you!

you are welcome and it does work. 

 

[an****]

Actually J, vaginas don't have ears, so talking to them is largely ineffective. They also can't see, which rules out conventional sign language. You have to communicate through a highly specialized form of internal interpretive dance. It's an extremely intimate process and, as a man, I am naturally an expert. 🤣😘

In all seriousness, what you described sounds like a lovely bonding moment for you and V and I truly hope you enjoy your experience.

[TheRigger]

I too am a male, retired NLP Practioner and life coach, tantric masseuse and Pranic Healer.

I have worked with a 3 female university students who were stressed with studies

Yoni massage amongst other techniques like breathing and relaxing exercises help these student get through the universe days easier.

As regards steaming, there is those that do it as part of their culture, doing it fir generations safely, and have a particular stool to sit on. Apparently does wonders and tightens up bits. Not something explored yet - waiting a willing candidate 😁

[ar****]

Seeing that you use the word yoni already, I'm assuming that you're aware of tantra.

I think there are so-called Yoni De-armorment practices (which may or may not be Tantra massage related), but I too am curious if there are some specific (named) rituals/techniques for this, rather than calling it "tantra". 🤔

@@TheRigger, nbsp;are you familiar with yoni de-armorment in relation to tantric massage and/or Somatic/Pranic Healing? Or is that a separate thing altogether?

[TheRigger]

Tantra and Pranic are both about energy flow, but have different results.

[jinxed]

@arnhem961 I've participated in tantric practices in the past and found them incredibly powerful, the connection I felt to my partner or rather the love I felt for him and from him was honestly just blissful. Of course, the requirement is to be open to these kind of energy work practices, so people like Mike7 probably would miss out on these experiences, I'd assume. It involved pranic elements like synchronised breathing or movement, so the focus was only on the energy between people. But there also were exercises with physical touch. For me, it felt like these two approaches complemented each other, but I'm sure focusing on one of the two would be just as intense. 
I will have to look into de-armorment in the future, so thank you for bringing this up! For now, it's just about love and care and tenderness. A very nice thing for a change. 

[jinxed]

3 hours ago, arnhem961 said:

I think there are so-called Yoni De-armorment practices (which may or may not be Tantra massage related), but I too am curious if there are some specific (named) rituals/techniques for this, rather than calling it "tantra". 🤔
 

Of course I couldn't resist and had to do a quick research and came across a great tantric practitioner called Helena Nista on youtube and she describes how to go about a self-dearmouring practice. It sounds absolutely beautiful and if that could be done with a partner in a loving and trusting relationship, it must be extra special. It's a 13-minutes video, so perhaps that could be a starting point for you? 

 

[ar****]

49 minutes ago, jinxed said:

Of course I couldn't resist and had to do a quick research and came across a great tantric practitioner called Helena Nista on youtube and she describes how to go about a self-dearmouring practice. It sounds absolutely beautiful and if that could be done with a partner in a loving and trusting relationship, it must be extra special. It's a 13-minutes video, so perhaps that could be a starting point for you? 

 

Yes! Thank you for the name-drop! I'll have some more to learn now! 😁 🙏 I was pointed to Tantra by Katrina Bos on YT, she has a more spiritual approach to the subject than Helena I imagine.

One thing to say, I think a friend of mine had a man dearmor her yoni without her realizing what happened. And ever since she's become very orgastic, to the point that she wondered if something was wrong. So it's good to be mindful about what power can come from healing your yoni, and not be self-conscious or ashamed of whatever change may happen for you.

I wish you a wholesome exploration! ✌️

[po****]

Trust your body and intuition, know that trauma is stuck there...cervical massage is most intense...but you gotta take it slow, you need to cry,scream,whatever...accept,welcome all the emotions!