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Gender Man
Age 61
Status Single
Height 179cm
Weight 95kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Grey
Beard Full beard
Ethnicity Other
Origin South Africa
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair Some hair
Dick length 20cm
Circumcised Yes
Zodiac sign Taurus
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Languages German
English

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Friends
  • Kinky Dates
  • LTR (relationship)
  • Networking
  • NSA (no strings...)
  • BDSM Lovers

Description

The Road Less Travelled — Are You Curious?

Let's be honest — the vanilla world has its charms, but some of us are wired a little differently. After years immersed in this world — helping run events, doing demonstrations, exploring where Tantra and BDSM intersect in ways that genuinely rewire your nervous system — I've stepped back from the stage and I'm looking for something more personal, that connection.

Here's what I've learned: Dominance isn't domineerng. Submission isn't servitude. The real dynamic lives somewhere far more interesting — in trust built slowly, respect earned mutually, and energy that moves between two people, not just in one direction. That spark either exists or it doesn't. You can't manufacture it and you shouldn't have to.

I'm not hunting for a body. I'm looking for a mind — one that's curious, self-aware, and genuinely interested in what happens when two people stop performing and start connecting. Will we finish each other's sentences? Will my hug be the one, when you need one?

I've explored rope work and Shibari (any rope bunnies reading this? 👀), and various other forms of play I'm happy to unpack over a conversation — not a monologue, a conversation.

If you're bringing: SSC and RACK awareness, safe word fluency, some spiritual curiosity, an appreciation for energy and sensation, and genuine enthusiasm for the journey over the destination — we should talk.

Hard limits — nothing illegal, nothing with lasting damage, and s are an absolute no, and public scenes that impose on unsuspecting bystanders aren't my thing. Discretion in public though? That's a different kind of fun entirely. 😏

This isn't a transaction. It's an exploration — mental, physical, maybe even spiritual. The endorphin rush is real, the surrender can be profound, and the right connection turns the whole thing into something neither of us fully predicted.

Intrigued? Start with hello.

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The Road Less Travelled — Are You Curious?

Let's be honest — the vanilla world has its charms, but some of us are wired a little differently. After years immersed in this world — helping run events, doing demonstrations, exploring where Tantra and BDSM intersect in ways that genuinely rewire your Read more… nervous system — I've stepped back from the stage and I'm looking for something more personal, that connection.

Here's what I've learned: Dominance isn't domineerng. Submission isn't servitude. The real dynamic lives somewhere far more interesting — in trust built slowly, respect earned mutually, and energy that moves between two people, not just in one direction. That spark either exists or it doesn't. You can't manufacture it and you shouldn't have to.

I'm not hunting for a body. I'm looking for a mind — one that's curious, self-aware, and genuinely interested in what happens when two people stop performing and start connecting. Will we finish each other's sentences? Will my hug be the one, when you need one?

I've explored rope work and Shibari (any rope bunnies reading this? 👀), and various other forms of play I'm happy to unpack over a conversation — not a monologue, a conversation.

If you're bringing: SSC and RACK awareness, safe word fluency, some spiritual curiosity, an appreciation for energy and sensation, and genuine enthusiasm for the journey over the destination — we should talk.

Hard limits — nothing illegal, nothing with lasting damage, and s are an absolute no, and public scenes that impose on unsuspecting bystanders aren't my thing. Discretion in public though? That's a different kind of fun entirely. 😏

This isn't a transaction. It's an exploration — mental, physical, maybe even spiritual. The endorphin rush is real, the surrender can be profound, and the right connection turns the whole thing into something neither of us fully predicted.

Intrigued? Start with hello.
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Throat an erroneous zone?

To many beers - yes erogenous zone 😁🍺🍺

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Throat an erroneous zone?

Opps mistake yey erogenous

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Throat an erroneous zone?
Interesting conversation with a female friend who loves a dick in her throat, says it is a major erroneous zone and helps bring her to an orgasm quicker and causes a major endorphin rush if having an orgasm with a dick down her throat. Does this have a similar effect on others?
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bimama8589 Oh God yes I completely agree. I love for the guy to *** my mouse open . Spit in my mouth. The. Ram his dick down my throat fast Ns hard . It's a huge rush . And makes me squirt every time I love it Oh God yes I completely agree. I love for the guy to *** my mouse open . Spit in my mouth. The. Ram his dick down my throat fast Ns hard . It's a huge rush . And makes me squirt every time I love it
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washington513273 I wish understand that better OK I don't know what to say anymore OK so I hope we could talk sometime. I wish understand that better OK I don't know what to say anymore OK so I hope we could talk sometime.
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TheRigger ➦TheRigger quote Deleted profile:❝Don't you mean erogenous?❞
To many beers - yes erogenous zone 😁🍺🍺 ➦TheRigger quote Deleted profile:❝Don't you mean erogenous?❞
To many beers - yes erogenous zone 😁🍺🍺
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Open to exploring toys and machines
Sold sex toys once as a side line, but had to stop fir various reasons. Now I have a large collection of toys and some sexual machinery. Would be interest others interest in toys and machines (like the Sybian). Any designers (I designed and built a machine we called the SubJooser).
This discussion is open to those happy to discuss toys they enjoy, want to try and those interested in designing sex machines.
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Curiousbilly2388 I've used dildos for a few years but I want to try a machine with multiple attachments while I'm dressed up can anyone help me with this fantasy I've used dildos for a few years but I want to try a machine with multiple attachments while I'm dressed up can anyone help me with this fantasy
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TheRigger I am not familiar with motorbunny and did a quick Google search. If the Motorbunny is as powerful (and quieter) than the Sybian, you should go for it the price is a lot less than the Sybian. All I can say with the experience with the Sybian and those brave enough to try it it, that it leads to some powerful endorphin rushes with those who enjoy both internal and external stimulation at the same time I am not familiar with motorbunny and did a quick Google search. If the Motorbunny is as powerful (and quieter) than the Sybian, you should go for it the price is a lot less than the Sybian. All I can say with the experience with the Sybian and those brave enough to try it it, that it leads to some powerful endorphin rushes with those who enjoy both internal and external stimulation at the same time
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Bondagecafe Does anyone have any experience in the classic Sybian vs. the Motorbunny? I've been thinking of investing but want real-world reviews Does anyone have any experience in the classic Sybian vs. the Motorbunny? I've been thinking of investing but want real-world reviews
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So another for the ladies. Ever experienced a ride on a Sybian? Was it fun?
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