Guys who comment on pictures with 'message me'

[an****]

It's all subjective. Actions of an attractive profile/person and actions of an unattractive person/profile tend to be the same. A friend/lover exhibits the same behaviors as a stalker. The attraction and consent are the difference. Multiple likes from your mate are super well received, from someone who doesn't fit your type, it's creepy. I don't like when people I don't like interact with me, I like when people I like interact with me in the same exact way. After a bunch of picture likes and an unwanted "train me, sir" I will block and delete, vs a 'wanted' does the same thing and messages "train me, sir" I will redirect to establishing a relationship before using earned roles, but I will generally reply. Same message, same effort, different result.

[Da****]

I agree 100% with this, if they don’t respond or convey interest move on. You’re only hurting yourself by begging

[Co****]

Nope I delete them

[Cl****]

For the most part, the ones that leave that type of comments are people who I restrict to send me messages just by age, so it's always some young dude sending me stuff like that.

[JW****]

Yeah. Also? It presents a logistics issue. There may have been a later opportunity; maybe even here. But there you are (I'd call it the 'pervert's penalty box', except my lifelong duty to uphold and defend the innocuousness of perversion stays my hand), languishing pitiably amongst those who also resisted prevention. Other women think every other woman's profiles are so cute! "IKNOWIT!!!"

I am with the Gentleman here as well, as he noted, "...I'm not the best when it comes to writing an opening message. I sometimes think I write way too much or not enough or am too generic or too detailed. Either way it didn't get their attention and that's fine."

I will surgically disagree with him in re 'fakeness' but only because the sympathetic cringe is all too real.

So many things were said that have 2X or 3X unexplored depth. 'If a gift is an option? Out of her filters!' In a technical sense the code does not allow sender with X characteristics to send to receiver, who opted to message-block X-characterized senders....

[MasterDarcy79]

There's an inherit communication problem with this place, and most forums, etc.

It's soul destroying leaping from one profile to the next, noting that they haven't written anything.

If more people dedicated a little time to flesh out their profile, with actual words, there would be less people message bombing photographs.

I have 10k+ words on my profile. That's probably more than all other members combined.

[Bl****]

"But to then go and comment on every picture "please message me back" just screams fake-ness and desperation to me."
That just screams laziness to me! All you need to do is say "hello, how're you?"