Hiring of dungeon

[da****]

If it’s a real dungeon they would give the name freely and tell you to book time there we have several dungeons in the US some are actually kink based places some are swinger based but either way you normally don’t pay to play with the dominants

[Al****]

1 hour ago, dale46805 said:

If it’s a real dungeon they would give the name freely and tell you to book time there we have several dungeons in the US some are actually kink based places some are swinger based but either way you normally don’t pay to play with the dominants

I agree, there will also be more info and probably some type of contract printed rules etc seems fishy

[Bl****]

If its a private one we do it like that

We send the contract in email

[idlehands60]

I have been in your situation, I did not go ahead with it as after looking I could find no information about the establishment. I was given an email to contact and got replies but it seemed fishy, after a little while the person I eas talking to had been blocked from the site also so. I thunk if the person contacted you first or went straight in to your wildest fantasy's I would say its a scam.

[Hypnocurious]

Been there, Done that. This is a SCAM.
There are people who advertise as Dommes but they are only after ***.
I have spoken with 4 people on here, as soon as they wanted *** for anything before we even talked on the phone or met in person. Absolute NO.
I am embarrassed to say it happened. But it did.
They are not real Doms.
Be careful.

[ey****]

11 hours ago, Fensub said:

Hi I have been talking to some dominatrixs on another site. They all want me to pay for a dungeon. Iv not got an issue in paying. But they want me to pay up front and give an email address. There is no Web page when I queried that I was told they don't advertise as its a club. Is this a scam ?

it is *probably* a scam, but not necessarily.  I say this, vibes I get is 95% that this is a scam

Your use of the word Dominatrix is where I sit in the other 5% - most people who are described as, or describe themselves, as Dominatrix are Pro Domme and yes you'd be expected to cover costs and yes you'd be expected to pay a deposit and - particularly if it's a private dungeon, or if they haven't booked a space until you've paid a deposit, then they wouldn't give out an address.  

Hell. the other week I booked a dungeon I know is real but had no address published until I hit pay, but in that case I knew it was real - and in that case it was advertised on a web page.

 

However. Generally they wouldn't explicitedly list that you pay for the dungeon, they'd be asking for a deposit from their overall fee/tribute (and they tend to book the dungeon from there) although some are lower fee plus dungeon costs. A little more common in London where some spaces are £40 an hour, some are £60 an hour. Where some are £500 for the day, where some are £300 for the day. You get the idea.

Some of this might not seem relevant ("yes it's a scam" might suffice. But giving you/others the info on how things work might help in the future)

But the bones of the common scam is very simple. You get talking to a lady, she is somehow everything you hoped for and more, she wants to arrange play/meet and wants to do it fairly quickly (bypassing all the stuff like coffee or video chats or so on... mind, you wouldn't have these with a Pro either) and can make alll your dreams come true - you just pay for the dungeon. Sounds good. Sounds fair. There used to be fake websites of dungeons online and you'd book them and pay and simply the space didn't exist.  Stolen photos (although these days probably AI) and all too good to be true. Part the reason the scam sometimes works is cos "even if she cancels I have a dungeon space hired, someone else might meet or I can see it or...." yeah... 

Mostly the scam relies on a lack of local knowledge.  It is worth finding out who or what is in your area.  

[da****]

41 minutes ago, BlackQueen69 said:

If its a private one we do it like that

We send the contract in email

I always warn people to stay away from private dungeons like the ones that our in someone’s home unless you know them personally have gone to more then a few munches and play parties with them they have atleast one dungeon master on property if not 2 or more to make sure all the play is done in a safe manner not every sub is 300 plus pounds and can throw their weight around in a way that will protect them if a dom gets out of hand or doesn’t follow the negotiated agreement of play so if a potential Dom would like a sub to pay for a play session in a dungeon I always recommend doing it at a well known public space where there are going to be safety guidelines and rules atleast until that dom and sub built that trust up enough to be able to play at a private space that might not be a advertised space

[ey****]

I guess as another kinda spin-off

Let's pretend you're able to verify that the dungeon space is legit - so you book it.   

OK, so who are these people you're agreeing to meet there?   

One of the huge issues with men in general as our biggest worries are in being scammed, either financially or "she doesn't look like her pictures" when there's a whole lot more can go much much worse in a dungeon scenario.    I mean, yep, if it's a Pro you might get a vibe from pictures, videos, etc.   But, like, I'm old.   I've seen new Dominants (of all genders) pick up something they don't know how to use and then be dangerous or reckless (appreciate for some subs this is a turnon, but then these subs are idiots) - I've seen accidents between people who are both experienced because of comms issues or a misudnerstanding (I have just recovered from a play related *** I'm taking responsibility for)  and like, this is something else to process.... other than "is this a scam?" an "OK, if it's not - do I want to meet this person?" 

[Fensub]

I would just like everyone for their replies. I thought it was a scam. Iv deleted all contact. And will carry on looking for someone genuine , Thank you.

[lo****]

She is a scammer, finds apparently local dungeons and gets you to pay her the deposit or directly to the site. Clever setup but fake

[th****]

Yes it’s fake. My first experience with an online Domme she went this route. Got burned for $400 after it was said and done. Hopefully you can learn from my mistake 💯

[Ne****]

Scam. Only pro Domme I know has her own dungeon in her basement.

[Ho****]

99.9 times it’s 💯 fake