I want to know your non-sexual turn-ons

[Starrygutz]

Bellies 🤤, same media, getting to talk about theories from the same media, also lets me have dumb moments

[su****]

Seeing someone focus on detail work in their hobbies (***ting, gardening, automotive, etc) and similar music tastes!

[Na****]

Education, learning or teaching.

[Mr****]

Deep focus (as with a hobby or other fixation); a "build vs burn" mindset, especially concerning humanity at large; a tendency toward loyalty when deserved (what that actually means, not people's misuse of "sexual exclusivity"); a tendency toward kindness by default; a sharp, soft, and immediate reminder of boundaries (I like partners with their own "lines in the dirt"). Physical competitiveness in private; a liking for cooking (I like to eat, so "symbiosis" haha); the type to body double or leave a cup of coffee by my desk unannounced when I'm lost in one of my "deep focus" moments. A certain narrow-eyed focus and a smirk, like I'm being intensely studied (love that). A willingness to be silly.

[sc****]

I know a lot of people like to call themselves sapiosexual but I absolutely LOVE it when someone is waaaaay smarter/more competent than I am. Had a cute guy explain metric tensors to me once, and the more I understood, the harder it was for me to focus on anything he was saying lol

[FS****]

Someone who isn't monosyllabic when conversing and can talk without it only being about sex. Being funny and able to take a joke. Well groomed facial hair. Tattoos. Glasses. Love a nerd/geek.

[Ju****]

Backrubs

[CL****]

Finding joy in an interest or hobby they have. Just lighting up when they get passionate about something

[chains07]

I'm
Disabled but i love rebuilding engines