Should i take a step back?

[Dc****]

Yup FZ fo sho. Stop having long conversations and get to the authentic subject matter.

[al****]

11 hours ago, jaxnorth said:

Sure but here's the problem with that attitude, it's a fetish site until a guy accidentally says something that's 1% offensive to a woman and suddenly she's screeching about how she didn't consent to his comment or some BS

Sure absolutely, I can see how that’s a frustrating bit to deal with of course. This topic and specific situation can also be looked at as the same situation, just genders are reversed as her comment has offended him in a similar fashion.
There are many variables to this topic and specific situation and so going forth this gentleman who’s posted either needs to simply talk to her about her remark or recognize that he needs to push for a in person meet. Only other option available is to simply end the conversation all together.

But yes I did say this is a fet dating app and he needs to remember that. As for women getting offended by a man’s remark, simply remind them of that too. Both genders need to be aware that this may not be the right dating app for them.

[No****]

Sounds like you are definitely in friends zone now. Otherwise she would say she wants to try things with you next.

[Mo****]

Have you tried asking her?

[ja****]

dude eject asap, she mentiond sex with another guy... not worth it , unless u just want to tap it 1 time and bail, even than ghost her and if she comes back set it up to meet and be physical

[ca****]

Spell it all out. How you feel and what you want. What's the worst that could happen?.

[ha****]

Yeah unless you two decided to be exclusive, i don't think there's much you can do or say.
Talk it out. Put what you're feeling and what you're looking for.
See if it's the same she's looking for and feeling

[Mr****]

You're thinking too emotionally. Well, that's only right in that "territorial possessiveness" is itself an emotion (one often mixed up for the thing we call "jealousy"). She shared experiences with you likely on suspicion that a) you have a cuck kink that she knows about and b) you actually do have good conversation a week into talking and she trusts sharing that with you (that's *not* the kind of thing most people willingly share in a week's time).

Be chill. Celebrate the fact that she actually found someone able to get her off in the first place (women seem to have a lot of trouble finding those who can assist with that, I hear, so try an be compassionate). You are an option at best wanting to be the main attraction at once.

[ja****]

6 hours ago, MrDDS said:

You're thinking too emotionally. Well, that's only right in that "territorial possessiveness" is itself an emotion (one often mixed up for the thing we call "jealousy"). She shared experiences with you likely on suspicion that a) you have a cuck kink that she knows about and b) you actually do have good conversation a week into talking and she trusts sharing that with you (that's *not* the kind of thing most people willingly share in a week's time).

Be chill. Celebrate the fact that she actually found someone able to get her off in the first place (women seem to have a lot of trouble finding those who can assist with that, I hear, so try an be compassionate). You are an option at best wanting to be the main attraction at once.

Let's play fair though, even when a guy doesn't show that he has a cock Kink a lot of women are almost smug about and way too open talking about all the guys they're fucking.

[De****]

Yeah I have to agree with JaxNorth on this one. It shows a lack of respect and lack of interest, she doesn't care if it makes her look less attractive in your eyes.

Would you do the same if you had great sex with another girl? Why wouldn't you? Because you care about perspectives, she doesn't and if she doesn't it's because you're not him buddy

[De****]

For any women reading this, men and women like different things. Women value experience, we value innocence.

Women value if a man is educated and successful. Things men have never said, she's cute but she's not ambitious enough lmao.

I don't mean any of this in a bad way, we are simply different and difference is strength when it's accompanied with understanding.

Girls, stop telling us about your XY and z experiences. It's not lady like, pretend to be dumb and allow your man to teach you. Thats how men fall in love, we've all forgeten the dance

[Cu****]

As a woman, I have to say that was a jerk move! It shows that she doesn’t respect you.
I would never do that, unless a dom told me to do x, y, z and then tell him about it!
I say let her go and move on.

[Mr****]

19 hours ago, jaxnorth said:

Let's play fair though, even when a guy doesn't show that he has a cock Kink a lot of women are almost smug about and way too open talking about all the guys they're fucking.

Where I came up, it was mostly the guys playing this game, so I'm primed to see it from the other angle. I can see @@Devastator108's nbsp;POV that it's disrespectful, though, so in that vein it's pretty clearly a bad look on its own merit.

I guess I just consider it a subtle means of attempting to wrest some form of social leverage. I've been doing the same type of event for so long that I no longer feel the need or desire to boast about it (I suppose for women it's more the tendency of nubiles, of those who've recently learned that they're desirable to more than just one person, almost always after some event where going "all-in" for one person has failed spectacularly); but I also believe what you've said.

[me****]

She might be telling you these things to see if you will fight to be her only. Which is childish in my opinion. To the women: men can't read our minds. Use your words. Tell them what you want from them in specifics. We are adults. Games are for ***.

[ey****]

So. I found it odd there's been no follow up from the OP - either to say he's spoke to her, or backed away, or whatever. So I had to look, to see if he'd been online

So he mentioned, in the OP, on Sunday he'd been talking to this lady for about a week.  In the shape of things this really isn't that long a time.

That doesn't, for example, mean it doesn't suck if he got talking to someone - thought it was going somewhere - and she's talking about f**king other guys (even if he DID mention he was into being a cuck) but still

But, his post before this from three weeks ago. So no more than 2 weeks before he started speaking to this new lady. He was talking about an ex he'd been sexting daily.  Interestingly of course, that also came with a story about being cucked. But him being into it.

And it's starting to feel something isn't quite adding up here.  

[fe****]

43 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

So. I found it odd there's been no follow up from the OP - either to say he's spoke to her, or backed away, or whatever. So I had to look, to see if he'd been online

So he mentioned, in the OP, on Sunday he'd been talking to this lady for about a week.  In the shape of things this really isn't that long a time.

That doesn't, for example, mean it doesn't suck if he got talking to someone - thought it was going somewhere - and she's talking about f**king other guys (even if he DID mention he was into being a cuck) but still

But, his post before this from three weeks ago. So no more than 2 weeks before he started speaking to this new lady. He was talking about an ex he'd been sexting daily.  Interestingly of course, that also came with a story about being cucked. But him being into it.

And it's starting to feel something isn't quite adding up here.  

I also went and looked at his profile. I wonder if this new woman is also only online. Also makes me curious about the other relationship he had mentioned in the post about the woman met during covid and what happened there. It could be a clue to this and of its a pattern of unfulfilling online only relationships where essentially he's being cucked, which he has mentioned in two separate post that he seems to like.

[ey****]

10 hours ago, feral_pet said:

 

I also went and looked at his profile. I wonder if this new woman is also only online. Also makes me curious about the other relationship he had mentioned in the post about the woman met during covid and what happened there. It could be a clue to this and of its a pattern of unfulfilling online only relationships where essentially he's being cucked, which he has mentioned in two separate post that he seems to like.

Sometimes on one hand, I've found on this site and others there are occassional people who make up stories around their fantasy, and I'm not always sure what they're hoping to get out of it.   But, perhaps with a cuck kink it might be hoped people laugh, mock, taunt, him etc for being cucked.  Same could be true if his story is true to be fair.  That those going "ha, you're in the friendzone" ultimately play into his kink.

But, I digress. I'm speculating a bit there.

Mind, often another issue with fantasies in general is folk find the reality don't match the one in the head, and maybe if he is unhappy to move away from stating he has a cuck kink.  Or, being clearer what it means to him.

Not helped, of course, that a lot of guys confuse "cuckolding" and "hot wifing" - as they find out when they get cucked, but actually wanted a hot wife.  If his stories are true, they play into cuckold.   If he's not happy, then the question is what does being cucked mean to him, where does his kink lie, and is it actually hotwifing he wants