Men’s photo posing

[Ne****]

22 hours ago, JackJonesHull said:

As a former boudoir occasional photographer I will say a great deal of what I produced was lies dressed up like filth. Leaving a lot to the imagination without showing anything at all. If I'd actually shot what it looked like I'd shot then husbands and boyfriends would have killed me by now.

Never have your body straight on, it really does add weight. So turn slightly.
Don't be looking down, or frequently straight on even, it makes the neck look thick.
Use angles to your benefit. And furniture/walls/anything. It's all camouflage.
Take a load of pictures with no intention of using them and look to see what works. Then do it again.

That's basically the kinda stuff the boudoir photographer I follow says

[Sh****]

If you’re looking to find the right angle, it can be helpful to start with the angle you think you want and then take more photos with a slight variation of that angle. Then you can look at the results and choose which one works the best. It’s often NOT the first picture taken that ends up looking the best.

[kr****]

You’re prob right … thanks for the info … if someone has just one photo I rarely engage.
I look for people who post 10-20 pics with a variety … I have a wide variety of interests ..
l believe the majority of women on here looks prob matter most to ***k interest .. I could be wrong .. most men post very few pics so I figured this would let people know that I’m confident and content with the way I look . I work really hard at 50 to stay in shape and take care of myself at this point . I figured if they like what they see then Mabye they will read some of my profile and see there is more depth and I’m on here with intention and purpose ..
not to just get laid..
im looking for a specific dynamic .. unfortunately I have rabbid un treated ADHD and sometimes my communication is like a tornado of overwhelming information . How do u think I should change my profile ?
Iv tried deleting pics I can’t ?
Im looking for a sub dom relationship with a true submissive .. collaring rituals cages chains sensory depth daddy good girl dynamic

[Te****]

Monday at 05:16 PM, sardonicus87 said:

Guess I'm just sol forver then. My fake smile is way, WAY worse than my "grumpy" neutral face and I have literally NO friends so nobody to take candid shots, I'm just bad as selfies, of the pics I have, each of those took several attempts and that's the best I could do.

I also can't showcase my personality or hobbies in photos either. How do you showcase introspective, philosophical thinker, or being into philosophy and logic puzzles and psychology without it coming off as "pretentious"? I have a sense of humor, but I'm not a clown, how do I show that in pics? I'm also laid back and chill, how do I show that without coming off as "boring"?

Pose with books. In front of a bookshelf. Books are sexy and having them telegraphs intelligence. It's not pretentious at all. Don't be afraid to come across as "too geeky." I'd be far more likely to PM a skinny, speccy guy with an enormous Classic Doctor Who DVD collection than yet another shirtless guy flexing his muscles in front of a bathroom mirror glaring haughtily, looking like a violent criminal.

[Te****]

Also, boys, if you have pets, take pics of yourself cuddling or playing with them! That gets to women and makes you look far more approachable and capable of gentleness. So many profile pics are frankly just scary, especially the aggressive "chad face" and "hunter eyes." That whole "chad" look screams "violent asshole who's never going to respect my limits" to me. We aren't actually attracted by threat, no matter what other guys may tell you. Men who get along with kids and ***s are worth their weight in gold. (And I'm childfree. But the point is that you show your humanity.)

[kr****]

I also think diversity is our strength .. one thing that might scare someone might turn someone on and one thing that is light and fluffy cuddly if you will might comfort someone and also might really turn someone off …
I guess it’s just staying true to yourself and someone with fit .. iv had some amazing sub dom relationships that I fostered on here …
I am a 3 x convicted felon with years in prison for car theft and drug dealing as a youth
But I’m also a nationally recognized healthcare pioneer with 26 initials behind my name with my work featured in New York Times Bloomberg news NPR
Boston Globe Boston herald LA times Chicago tribune a consultant for the governor and a consultant for the drug zar at the White House ..
Is that sexy ? I’m not trying to find my next wife here .. I mean I’m open to all but this isn’t a standard dating app .
All I know is all of it is part of me .. I’m a dad and a gental men first Iv never cheating or laid a single hand on a women .. I know I prob look like a ***er but I’m actually a loving caring human being who has dedicated the past 20 years to fighting the opiate epidemic trying to give people hope help and love .
I don’t know that just sounds unsexy ..
the fact that iv been shot stabbed 6 times
Sounds abit hotter but fuck I’m just a project kid .
I know I’m over sharing
But what I know is women are so much smarter and so much more complex then men ..
I’m just trying