Ro**** Posted January 10, 2022 Posted January 10, 2022 How hard is too hard? Should the guy aim at going as deep as (im)possible? Favorite position, on your knees? On your back leaning over an edge?
Pe**** Posted January 11, 2022 Posted January 11, 2022 First of all, you need to understand a few facts about human biology. The throat is a series of sphincters (much like the anus is a sphincter). The esophagus has 2 sphincters (one upper to control the trachea and one lower to control the gastric acids) the nominal width of the esophagus in adults is generally around 4cm. Aside from the gagging problem (which is an upper sphincter control issue), deep throating takes 2 things into consideration: the ability of the pharynx, upper sphincter and esophagus to stretch open to accommodate your penis girth ; and the ability for the person to hold their breath (because they can’t breathe and swallow at the same time). If you are wanting to have a long term face fucking relationship then take both of these matters into account: 1) train your sub to hold their breath for longer durations of time 2) train your sub to progressively take wider dildos down their throat until it matches your penis girth 3) train your sub progressively to acknowledge the dildo/penis passing by the upper sphincter in their throat. Training of all of the above is best done with the sub in control of the depth and duration. A good sub will want to get better in time, so forcing it will only create ***. When your sub has been trained to take your girth and depth that’s when you can start face fucking. Always remember that saliva production is a function of the body’s reaction to agitation if the upper sphincter. This is because the function of saliva itself is to protect the mouth throat and esophagus from damage due to acidic/rough foods going down or stomach acid coming up (in the case of vomit). The implications of this is that if the gag reflex is triggered to the point of vomit, you will want a lot of that saliva on your penis to prevent it from being scorched by the stomach acids coming out. Enjoy 😊
Deleted Member Posted January 11, 2022 Posted January 11, 2022 Feel like I should book mark this answer for future study lol
Deleted Member Posted January 11, 2022 Posted January 11, 2022 I sure just copyied it to save on my notes hahaha
Deleted Member Posted January 11, 2022 Posted January 11, 2022 IMO facefucking is about the fucker's control over the fuckee, as in you control the depth and speed etc. You can absolutely do facefucking with "just the tip"; the important part is that you decide and exercise your dominance. And obviously you need to understand what is physically and psychologically acceptable to your partner. People see porn and don't realise that, as PerthS has explained, the performers are basically trained sword-swallowers
Braintease-3027 Posted January 11, 2022 Posted January 11, 2022 I can take more when I’m leaning back because it opens my throat more. But a sore throat from getting it slammed into is a good reminder the next day.
Deleted Member Posted January 11, 2022 Posted January 11, 2022 2 minutes ago, Braintease said: I can take more when I’m leaning back because it opens my throat more. But a sore throat from getting it slammed into is a good reminder the next day. I call this affliction “cock-tonsil” :)
Leisa Posted January 11, 2022 Posted January 11, 2022 It’s not my throat I’m worried about but rather my teeth.
Ro**** Posted January 11, 2022 Author Posted January 11, 2022 3 minutes ago, Leisa said: It’s not my throat I’m worried about but rather my teeth. Well just open wide and that should be fine?😉
Leisa Posted January 11, 2022 Posted January 11, 2022 9 minutes ago, Rougher said: Well just open wide and that should be fine?😉 Loud but small mouth. It only opens so wide lol
Ro**** Posted January 11, 2022 Author Posted January 11, 2022 4 minutes ago, Leisa said: Loud but small mouth. It only opens so wide lol Considered those dental tools?😉
so**** Posted January 11, 2022 Posted January 11, 2022 I like to have my hand around her throat so I can feel her esophagous stretch when I push it in😁so hot lol
Deleted Member Posted January 12, 2022 Posted January 12, 2022 Face fuck, I'd love a woman to just sit on my face, squirt on me .. that's what I want.. not a face fuck, but a face ride.
Deleted Member Posted January 15, 2022 Posted January 15, 2022 I'd ask the person you're planning on doing it to.
Nylon-Nellie Posted January 15, 2022 Posted January 15, 2022 As above. Ask the person what is acceptable to them as a person. Every person is different and no one rule fits all.
Je**** Posted January 16, 2022 Posted January 16, 2022 On 1/11/2022 at 10:39 AM, Leisa said: It’s not my throat I’m worried about but rather my teeth. This tickled me! xxxx
Je**** Posted January 16, 2022 Posted January 16, 2022 On 1/11/2022 at 2:57 AM, PerthS said: First of all, you need to understand a few facts about human biology. The throat is a series of sphincters (much like the anus is a sphincter). The esophagus has 2 sphincters (one upper to control the trachea and one lower to control the gastric acids) the nominal width of the esophagus in adults is generally around 4cm. Aside from the gagging problem (which is an upper sphincter control issue), deep throating takes 2 things into consideration: the ability of the pharynx, upper sphincter and esophagus to stretch open to accommodate your penis girth ; and the ability for the person to hold their breath (because they can’t breathe and swallow at the same time). If you are wanting to have a long term face fucking relationship then take both of these matters into account: 1) train your sub to hold their breath for longer durations of time 2) train your sub to progressively take wider dildos down their throat until it matches your penis girth 3) train your sub progressively to acknowledge the dildo/penis passing by the upper sphincter in their throat. Training of all of the above is best done with the sub in control of the depth and duration. A good sub will want to get better in time, so forcing it will only create ***. When your sub has been trained to take your girth and depth that’s when you can start face fucking. Always remember that saliva production is a function of the body’s reaction to agitation if the upper sphincter. This is because the function of saliva itself is to protect the mouth throat and esophagus from damage due to acidic/rough foods going down or stomach acid coming up (in the case of vomit). The implications of this is that if the gag reflex is triggered to the point of vomit, you will want a lot of that saliva on your penis to prevent it from being scorched by the stomach acids coming out. Enjoy 😊 I agree with everything you said. I even learned a thing! I didn't agree with the phrasing "A good sub will want to get better in time..". I just felt it may make some feel like a bit of a failure if they don't want to get better or progress too much with it. I love face fucking, I don't do it often and at times I find it is difficult and hard to cope with gagging and stuff (I am learning a little to hold breath and not gag as much) but I have no plans to be 'better' and that it will not make me any less good within a submissive role if I don't. I think it's down to the individual. Plus some the fact that their partner gags and ***s and such... Each to their own. That's just my two cents. Lol. But thanks for the info I may do as others suggest and take some notes on the biology of it.
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