Best Shibari Breast Harness for Big hanging Breasts?

[DarkArts1066]

So, here is my dilemma.
I have a Ladyfriend, who is curvy, and very busty - around a 40HH/J bust size.

Her breasts rest on her rib cage.and are absolutely beautiful. They have lost a little firmness over the past year and are definitely sagging.. which just makes them better in my opinion.

My issue is - trying to find a suitable harness style that will fit her boobs, lifting them and being restrictive - but not painful in any way as she is hypersensitive there.

This is for a particular roleplay… which has been discussed for over a year now.

Can any of our Shibari exponents here suggest a suitable style of harness that will fit our needs ?

Thank you in advance, fellow Kinksters……

[Ri****]

I take it her breasts are not to be tied up/off due to sensitivity, and free-hanging is not an option?

[DarkArts1066]

55 minutes ago, RigViking said:

I take it her breasts are not to be tied up/off due to sensitivity, and free-hanging is not an option?

RigViking - thanks for your comment. They can be tied, but I need to be sensitive to her sensitivity in that area. This is a roleplay situation which she has had in her head for 30+ years… so plenty of time to think about the little details for her. Free hanging is not an option, she will be on her back, in a frog tie also… and her breasts need to be presented for attention. Being soft and large, they tend to fall either side of her rib cage rather than sitting up on her chest.

[Char__]

I'm a 34J. I have pics in my profile of a modified cupcake harness. Double band underneath and above the breast for stability.

[DarkArts1066]

Lady_Char - Thank you. That looks like the kind of thing I am thinking of. Simple but elegant and effective. Double bands look like they are doing the trick …..

[al****]

Man big fat natural floppy hangers are the best!! You da man 😎

[yz****]

Has an answer been found? I'm in a similar situation. Thanks for any help!

[Char__]

1 hour ago, yz450fdirtbiker said:

Has an answer been found? I'm in a similar situation. Thanks for any help!

See above. Cupcake harness with either two 30ft ropes or one 50ft rope. 8mm is better than 6mm bc the thinner rope can cut in with the weight it's holding.

[yz****]

Thank you!

[Deleted Member]

That’s my type of body, it’s so hard to find harness and lingerie that fit me well

[DarkArts1066]

I currently have three 30 foot (11metre) lengths of rope, and one 25 foot (9metre) length of rope, and am experimenting with those as to what works best. The issue is always going to be the sheer size of the breast itself… and the level of comfort - or discomfort acceptable to the wearer.

Both my ladyfriend and I want the harness to enhance the look of her breasts, without causing undue discomfort - as her breasts are incredibly sensitive. I can spank and crop them lightly, but nothing too severe… so any harness used must take those factors into account.

I am planning on experimenting with Cupcake harnesses specifically, and also the use of bondage tape and satin straps rather than rope - which I feel may give the right effect, but without the discomfort.

Does anyone have any thoughts on this ?

[Esinem]

I think you might find the answer more in western bondage as cup-cake ties are more common than in shibari. In Japan, big boobs are a rarity. It's mainly A and B cup territory in my experience. That said, I'm pretty sure I saw a photo of a tie by Osada Steve which added a hishi (diamond) pattern to provide additional mesh-like support to a takate-kote (box-tie) for a rather well-endowed young lady.

[Vi****]

I've read these comments with fascination I'd love.to try rope work but never have as I didn't think it'd be possible or they'd be enough rope 😆 I will be looking at the cupcake harness now thanks for the info. It is incredibly difficult I feel to try some of the bdsm ideas out when your a big breasted woman. I feel your frustration darkarts and your partners. Hope it works out for you.

[DarkArts1066]

16 hours ago, Esinem said:

I think you might find the answer more in western bondage as cup-cake ties are more common than in shibari. In Japan, big boobs are a rarity. It's mainly A and B cup territory in my experience. That said, I'm pretty sure I saw a photo of a tie by Osada Steve which added a hishi (diamond) pattern to provide additional mesh-like support to a takate-kote (box-tie) for a rather well-endowed young lady.

Esinem, I think you are right there. Only in Japanese porn do the girls seem to have really big breasts - although I do have a friend in Osaka who is a fan, and seems to find brig breasted ladies with alarming regularity. I think I’ve seen that same tie by Osaka Steve …. I need to look that out.

By the way, I am assuming that you are the same Gentleman that I have purchased my Shibari ropes from ?? ….. may I congratulate you on the quality of your products.

[Esinem]

9 hours ago, DarkArts1066 said:

Esinem, I think you are right there. Only in Japanese porn do the girls seem to have really big breasts - although I do have a friend in Osaka who is a fan, and seems to find brig breasted ladies with alarming regularity. I think I’ve seen that same tie by Osaka Steve …. I need to look that out.

By the way, I am assuming that you are the same Gentleman that I have purchased my Shibari ropes from ?? ….. may I congratulate you on the quality of your products.

Lol!  I'm not sure where he finds them :-D I think Steve posted the pic on Fetlife some while back as I commented on it to him as it was such a rarity.

I'm pretty sure I am.  Thank you.  As I find new suppliers and work with existing ones, the rope seems to be getting even nicer. My recent Indian supplier is really going the extra mile to design the Holy Grail of rope