Erotic Hypnosis?

[Deleted Member]

Just curious whether or not hypnokink has any traction on here or if there’s any online presence for it at all. I hardly see it mentioned so I just thought I’d try to start a potential conversation by making a thread for any general conversation to orbit around!

[dr****]

I've honestly thought about but haven't researched it personally

[Deleted Member]

Well I like the idea

[Hy****]

Havent found it to have much traction on here but you never know. Got some online presences but its a little less known than most.

[Xr****]

This sounds interesting

[Dagothdecker]

Ya just go with it. No one likes a stick in the mud

[Ia****]

I personally like watching sissy Hypnos.

[Deleted Member]

Hypnosis is a crock of s**t

[BadDesires]

It's certainly something I'd be interested in learning more about. It does seem a fun scenario to experiment with from all perspectives, although part of me is a little sceptical on how realistic an experience can actually be. I'm sure with the right partners it can be more effective.

[ch****]

I’ve ‘listened’ to some of ViVe’s work: https://vive-hypnosis.com

Mainly as a form of self-kink, while trying to get my gf to explore my fantasies (which has some mixed results up until now, but I keep having faith)

[DeviantInside]

It is a little niche. I have over 20 year's experience with erotic hypnosis, using it for anything from orgasm control (c*mming on command/ unable to c*m, just having it build up more and more until begging for release/ unable to stop c*mming etc), to blocking out *** during things like needle play, to having the person experience sensations that aren't actually happening  (even other people being involved (the first person I ever did hypnosis with had a thing for a particular celebrity), to being tied and unable to move without any actual rope. And a whole lot else besides.

Outside of kink I have used it for all sorts too, help deal with period ***, to aid with study and deal with exam stress,  to quit smoking, cure phobias, cope with PTSD, anxiety, depression etc and a whole lot more here too.

There are a lot of common misconceptions about hypnosis, common ones are that you'll end up acting like a chicken, or the myth that someone hasn't woken up from a trance. You cannot hypnotise someone that is unwilling, nor make someone do anything they would be against (all stage hypnosis volunteers are carefully selected and are there knowing what it is likely to entail). You can however help people lower their inhibitions or get past hang ups they may have. Plus in relation to what I have said above, every stimuli we ever experience happen because information is sent to the brain, triggering neural pathways. Those pathways can be triggered without the actual sensation. Added to this the modern understanding of the brain (with EEG machines, MRI scans etc so we can see what happens) we have been able to see how the brain functions, including under trance conditions. The brain wave patterns under trance are very similar to REM sleep, and we actually go into trance regularly (when we drive on autopilot, drift into our own world reading a book, daydream). There are obviously different levels of the depth of trance achieved but it is still essentially the same thing. There's a lot more to it than that but that's a very brief synopsis.

If anyone wants to ask me any questions they're more than welcome to.

[Bl****]

Been doing it for 8 years or so. But I can agree it is pretty niche. There is a big online presence tho.

[DeviantInside]

17 minutes ago, ***yback said:

Been doing it for 8 years or so. But I can agree it is pretty niche. There is a big online presence tho.

I also know of a munch in Basingstoke, UK that is for erotic hypnosis people, so there may be others too.

[Bl****]

29 minutes ago, DeviantInside said:

I also know of a munch in Basingstoke, UK that is for erotic hypnosis people, so there may be others too.

I know there is some in the Midwest of the U.S. too. Nothing in MTL that I know

[sw****]

I’ve done it before with a Dom. Even sometimes now when I’m not in hypnosis I get the effects. The trigger words really do work.

[la****]

I haven’t seen much discussion about it online but I took a class on it at the local dungeon. Just like normal hypnosis but then add in the kink. It’s definitely starting to become more popular.

[Th****]

gonewildaudio has some hypno and even hfo hypno files. Definitely worth checking out

[be****]

I’ve read a ton of erotica about it and fantasised but never been brave enough to seek it out in person 😅

[Tr****]

This is the first time I’m hearing of this

[Vi****]

On 5/2/2022 at 11:54 AM, DeviantInside said:

It is a little niche. I have over 20 year's experience with erotic hypnosis, using it for anything from orgasm control (c*mming on command/ unable to c*m, just having it build up more and more until begging for release/ unable to stop c*mming etc), to blocking out *** during things like needle play, to having the person experience sensations that aren't actually happening  (even other people being involved (the first person I ever did hypnosis with had a thing for a particular celebrity), to being tied and unable to move without any actual rope. And a whole lot else besides.

Outside of kink I have used it for all sorts too, help deal with period ***, to aid with study and deal with exam stress,  to quit smoking, cure phobias, cope with PTSD, anxiety, depression etc and a whole lot more here too.

There are a lot of common misconceptions about hypnosis, common ones are that you'll end up acting like a chicken, or the myth that someone hasn't woken up from a trance. You cannot hypnotise someone that is unwilling, nor make someone do anything they would be against (all stage hypnosis volunteers are carefully selected and are there knowing what it is likely to entail). You can however help people lower their inhibitions or get past hang ups they may have. Plus in relation to what I have said above, every stimuli we ever experience happen because information is sent to the brain, triggering neural pathways. Those pathways can be triggered without the actual sensation. Added to this the modern understanding of the brain (with EEG machines, MRI scans etc so we can see what happens) we have been able to see how the brain functions, including under trance conditions. The brain wave patterns under trance are very similar to REM sleep, and we actually go into trance regularly (when we drive on autopilot, drift into our own world reading a book, daydream). There are obviously different levels of the depth of trance achieved but it is still essentially the same thing. There's a lot more to it than that but that's a very brief synopsis.

If anyone wants to ask me any questions they're more than welcome to.

Please don't take this comment as a slight on you at all as obviously I don't know you. I've seen some of your really good advice on threads and your a very intelligent man. You obviously do hypnosis as part of your job as well. So I guess what I'm trying to say isn't fascinates me, but how would I know you wernt going to use mis use your "power" 

So that's always been my *** and sticking point from nkt exploring it, it's a whole other new level of trust I guess. 

It's those unsavoury characters that may just mis use this for darker purposes. Are there any ways it's possible to know if you had been duped, say?

Edited May 11, 2022 by Vic1077

[Ta****]

One lab experiment to see if a person is hypnotized is a 'negative hallucination' - have them not see a chair placed in the middle of the room, then ask them to walk across the room.

Someone faking it will walk into the chair. Someone actually hypnotized will slip around it.

The point here is hypnotism won't cause someone to harm themselves or do something they really don't want to do. Even if people subjectively experience it as a loss of control, it isn't. 

[Deleted Member]

I've wanted to try it, I think it would be a good experience.

[DeviantInside]

5 hours ago, Vic1077 said:

Please don't take this comment as a slight on you at all as obviously I don't know you. I've seen some of your really good advice on threads and your a very intelligent man. You obviously do hypnosis as part of your job as well. So I guess what I'm trying to say isn't fascinates me, but how would I know you wernt going to use mis use your "power" 

So that's always been my *** and sticking point from nkt exploring it, it's a whole other new level of trust I guess. 

It's those unsavoury characters that may just mis use this for darker purposes. Are there any ways it's possible to know if you had been duped, say?

I don't take it negatively at all, if you never ask you never learn. I think the more people are aware of everything the better all round.

Ok there are a few aspects to this. To a very large extent your subconscious will (as alluded to by others) act as a safeguard and watchdog for you. You cannot be made to do something you would be against doing. Similarly if you don't want to be hypnotised you won't be. However there are obviously caveats to that. It is possible through hypnosis to lower inhibitions or induce post hypnotic suggestions that, whilst at the time might seem like a good idea aren't so positive later down the line (e.g. someone not being able to cum unless given permission... and then splitting form the partner but with the suggestion still firmly imbedded). So in that respect there are things to be aware ond cosncious of when exploring this sort of thing.

In terms of lowering the inhibitions there is definitely a level of trust that ought to be in place... although different people have different viewpoints on playing whilst under the influence of alcohol etc, it's not dissimilar to think would you be comfortable with that person playing with you, and to have your best interests in mind whilst you were at a level of inebriation. Or even when we look at things like sub frenzy, where submissives feel a euphoria and may be open to things they might not normally consider, would you trust that person to stick to pre agreed limits.

So in that sense it's much like vetting who you play with in all aspects of this. Do they know what they are doing, are they aware of potential pitfalls., do they have your best interests in mind throughout (both short and longer term). You may get an indication of this through what they want to know about you beforehand. Also discuss what you want to do and what you don't want to

There are also different levels of trance work; there can be surface level trance work where you are conscious throughout (for example I have used hypnosis to take someone a simulated orgasm by through online chat... obviously they had to be fully conscious and aware to read what I was typing, far fewer risks with this as obviously you are fully aware of everything, however this doesn't work for everyone and the scope/immpact of what is/can be done are also likely to be restricted) and at the other end of the spectrum there is deep trance where more imbedded suggestions and post hypnotic triggers are more likely to be a part of it. (there is also the Esdaile state... but this is incredibly rare, very few people ever reach this state... this is a state where they stop responding or even being able to hear what you are saying, in an almost eu[phoric state, at which point you won't be able to bring them out of trance, just have to wait for them to wake naturally. Usually in about 20-30 mins. No one has ever permanently stayed in trance state). This again plays into levels of trust that you have in the person.

So the TLDR is find someone who knows what they're doing... there are a lot a sources to learn from, and anyone who wants to learn should be aware of the risks (e.g. it should not be done with someone with psychosis as can lead to false memories, similarly phopbias should be steered well clear of unles you have been trained properly).

Do it with someone you trust. Much like you probably wouldn't invite just anyone home, neck a bottle of vodka and lay out the whips, cuffs and blindfold. Get to know the person.

And much like so much in kink and indeed life genrally, communication is key. Talk about what you want to do first, when you are both in a fully rational state, what you are comfortable with, and what you would not be.

Hope that helps some. There's probably more but it's 1 AM and brain is a little frazzled. I also don't want to scare people off, hypnosis for the most part is a very safe practice, we all go into trance states every day, driving the car, daydreaming, out on a run, and for the most part if someone asked you to pass them something when in that state you may well do it without thinking, however if they asked you to slap yourself in the face it would bring you back to focus breaking the trance state.

It can definitely be a lot of fun.

[Vi****]

Well I'm super impressed that you wrote that reply to me at 1am, and thank-you. We are definitely in trance like state's alot I hadn't looked at it that way before, almost like auto pilot, especially when doing the same routine tasks. It's really fascinating and it's given me a lot to research on further. 

I guess certain people are more susceptible to being hypnotised aswell. Food for thought 😀

[Ta****]

"I guess certain people are more susceptible to being hypnotised aswell. "

Some people are high or low responders. That is partly natural; research it mixed but it may have a genetic element to it. However, it's also a skill that can be developed with practice, and a little practice goes a long way.

People who engage in similar activities such as mediation (or some kinds of pray) tend to be high responders, due to the relevant practice they have already had.