DOMS WHO LIKE CUNNILINGUS

[LO****]

I am Dom Master straight with a pussy licking fetish. 

Was taught to do it properly by lesbian female friends and a professional porn star friend 

Am totally addicted to the act and find it gives me incredible controlling power over the pleasure centre and orgasms of the woman.

I can choose to make her feel excited and then cool her down or give her a orgasm when and if I see fit

That to me is the real definition of control and a having power over a sub

This is true dominance.

Cannot achieve the same effect when power pounding a sub in the same way

Why then so many consider cunnilingus to be a submissive role only?

What are your thoughts  people of Fet?

 

 

[Ch****]

Personally i think the only person to teach you to do it right is the person receiving as everyone will like something different but im sure theres things ladies will have in common.
I feel some people see oral(giving) as degrading/humiliating, so some dominant people wont do it, thats their choice if they view it that way. Same as i wouldnt do something i considered a more domly trait that others might not see that way.
So it really is just down to peoples personal view.

[ey****]

as a side note

cunnilingus in porn is more for the cameras than for her pleasure

I wouldn't take "a professional porn star taught me" as any real metrics

 

[Wi****]

I love giving it, especially when she grab your ears to hold you in, then the hips thrusts as you suck on the clit, fantastic.

[LO****]

The professional porn star was not making a movie when teaching me.

She was a friend and client for my accountancy services 

I ll stick to the lessons learned.

They have served me well 

[ey****]

I get that; I just found it a weird gauge of what to give as an example of experience.

 

[Se****]

I think it is an “act” or role any can choose to do/give provided they and the person receiving enjoy it. However, as a woman who finds orgasm incredibly difficult (sometimes even by myself) your statements alarm me.

One cannot simply be “taught” how to give cunnilingus (or for that matter fellatio or any other sexual act) other than the very basic anatomy and simplicity of tongue here, lick this, suck that.

Each and every person and ergo their body is different and likes and enjoys something slightly different - pressure, time, sensation, frequency.

I am not disputing the fact that many women may well have enjoyed your oral skills.

But your statement that “this is true dominance” is the definition of arrogance and not at all (in my eyes dominance).

And saying that you can choose when to “give her an orgasm”, for me personally, is a huge turn off as you assume your previous ability will have the same effect on me. And WHEN it doesn’t it will be me who feel like a failure.

So whilst I agree that oral sex is not purely a submissive role I cannot agree with the majority of what you say. And whilst I hope you don’t ever find yourself with a sub like me I’d tread very, very carefully before proclaiming your sexual “prowess” as the measure of true dominance.

X

[ey****]

could also add

I know a lot of Dommes who do not permit sexual contact with their submissives at all (and, well, those who do) 

given how many subs say this is something they enjoy doing - the question could be 'whose enjoyment is this for' which would further ask if it was being done as an act of submission (this is a whole different minefield)

I think very few things are purely submissive or Dominant

[Deleted Member]

100% I love eating Pussy myself too. I’ve bought some books to get even better at them at some point in my life. They were a game changer off the rip.

[Deleted Member]

I'm not interested in it, never have been. Just does not appeal. We are all different I suppose.

[Blzbob_redux]

I enjoy it, the entire crazy act, learning a new persons body seeing how they respond to your actions how far you can push them along if the "I can't cum again" is true or if you coax one or maybe two more knee tremblers. It's fun for me, hopefully fun for any hypothetical recipient and between consenting adults why the hell not. 

[RJ****]

I am a Dom, but I love giving a woman pleasure and watching her excitement gradually intensify until she finally cums. It is a huge turn-on for me.

[Deleted Member]

Count me in. Find absolute joy in bringing her this kind of pleasure.

[ma****]

I couldn't of said or explained it better .glad I'm not alone in my thoughts and perspective of things