New sissy!! Need advice/tips!!

[Deleted Member]

Heyyy! I’m new to exploring my sissy/femboy kink! Do femdoms like sissies who are ultra confident or ones that they think they can mold into their own? Do femdoms like sissies that try to look as sexy as possible or classy?? These are just a couple I have, feel free to add any other tips/advice!!!

[mi****]

I like ones who are confident! I like sissies who are sexy a lot, but classy if we go somewhere. I hope that helps. Also you are beautiful!

[ge****]

Like most questions of this type the answer will vary from person to person - there's no single cover all one - different folks and different strokes etc

[Deleted Member]

I've moved past the sissy stuff and decided to start transitioning in April, but I'm interested in the answers you get! 🙂 (I'm NOT confident at all, so I'm on the other side of the spectrum from you in that regard 😔)

[ey****]

as Gemini says - the answer is... there is no hivemind, people like different things - so be true to yourself, be the sissy you want to be.

 

What I have found...

there are people who might be able to help you with outfits or make up etc (though : there's also plenty of online tutorials) but a lot is going to be an investment in yourself.  Like, I've seen people go "i want to be a sissy" who've done no groundwork, own nothing, don't even have much of a budget and expect the other person to do it all.

this is something a lot of people do find a turn off - that there's people who may like to help; but would want to see some ground work

[EMandM]

I'd say just do what feels good for you, if the dom doesn't like it, find another dom 🙂

[Deleted Member]

My little fairy dove, you've certainly got the looks for it. I am Madam V, a strong dominant femdom/findom woman. If you'd like I take you under my wing, or just to give a few pointers into how to convey your more feminine personality, pm me and we can work on those questions you want answers to. Of course, I can't speak for all queens, but I'd like to think my judgment is superb.

[Mr****]

First of all, I would just like to say you are very well put together. As a Femboy-Afficianado, I can tell you not only put some great dedication into your looks, but you also have just the right body type to fully enjoy this fetish. I like how well you pull off such a cute look 😘
Now onto to topic at hand. Sissies and femboys are best enjoyed when they are submissive and servile. The only confidence you should display is in how well you take orders, fulfill commands and present yourself for your betters uses. Typically, the cuter, softer and girlier you can appear, the better you are considered and valued.
Now from what I have seen, this kink pairs very well with chastity cages and domestic servitude. If your master/mistress puts you in a chastity cage, you can expect to be writhing in ecstasy all day. Your dom may tease you and incentivise good behavior with release. And that same locked up, pent up, hot and bothered feeling is a fantastic motivator to do anything the dom commands: whether you are polishing a footwear collection, doing the laundry, preparing dinner, tidying a bed, massaging somebody, pleasing someone sexually with no guarantee you get to have or feel an orgasm and being used for clean-up services and even as little as being a good girl who keeps the som company and flirts with them, like a hostess girl, because it makes them happy and builds their confidence to hear such sweet things; you are going to be bulging in your cage and dribbling in anticipation.
Never stop thinking about how you can improve your looks and wardrobe. Just because you are gorgeous doesn't mean that's the best you can do. Look for cute skirts and matching tops, leggings and high heel boots, a corset and a sexy little choker/collar, you can never go wrong with a nice sense of fashion. Also some uniforms/costumes to spoil your owner. A French maid uniform will go well with keeping your dom's household neat and tidy, and you can expect they'll enjoy that sweet little eye candy who can wink and curtsy in those cute kitten heels.
The most effective piece of advice I can grant a new and eager learner is this: watch femboy/sissy porn and take note of everything you like and want to try. Take note of what you do not like and want to set as a clear limit. There are thousands upon thousands of femboy vids to set some examples for you.
Another thing you can try, if you prefer to cone into this kink on your own before settling down with your forever-dom, there are some types of porn/activities called "roulettes"; by rolling dice and marking the numbers that cone up, you can have an entire kinky activity for you to enjoy. And these "(fetish) roulette" posts can easily be found on Google images. Just disable safe search and find the ones you like.
And if you read everything I have to say with pure anticipation, and you know you liked thinking about it; don't hesitate to ask me for some hot scenario ideas that you can try for fun, some suggestions for a cute sissy wardrobe, or even just advice about how to go about swing something. I am happy to assist you 😉

[ja****]

I’ve been doing the “femboy” / “sissy” thing for a few years now. I think it really depends on what the femdom has in mind. If you try a while load of styles and looks, you can see which your dom likes most or which you can pull off more easily. Maybe start with some easy feminine clothing choices and work your way up.