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As a sub I feel like I should do more outside the bedroom. how can I contribute more to the scene.

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Ask! Do some chores or stuff to make their life easier to be honest. Think about doing things or finding things. Depending on how they are/ the way they love you. Dress nicely and appealing to them, maybe if they get a cut or something go the extra mile and get some wipes/ plasters or whatnot. It’s love/ care at the end of the day.

This obviously depends on the type of person though. It always depends
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Start with protocol and service. Address Her properly and help with her other needs. For my Domme I do her laundry, cooking, cleaning and handyman work. When her life is made easier from your efforts, that's a huge part of submission. There are few things less desirable than a "do me" sub who doesn't wish to benefit their Dominant except in the bedroom. At that point, is it even submission or just a kink?
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Depends on the dynamic you have with an individual dominant - for some it will be purely during a scene, for others it will be a 24/7 thing, and yet others somewhere in between - the *only* answer to your question will be the one coming from the specific dominant you are engaged with and that you agree to as part of any negotiations
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a lot hinges really on the other person but for the best part open a conversation

things like doing the chores is not submission, you're running a household so should be doing a fair contribution anyway - but there might be things you can do over and above 

being proactive is always viewed above being micromanaged

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Maintain the toys, tools, and equipment used in the scene
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