Paddles NYC, like the best Doms, is not shy about its attributes. This celebrated kink-friendly venue claims to have not just a stunning pantheon of ***, but 'the best-equipped dungeon on earth.' Paddles NYC is in the business of making fantasies realities. It is big and bold, boasting a 5,000 square foot multi-level play space. Whether you're into spanking, whipping, foot fetishes, cross-dressing - and much more - Paddles NYC is your destination. Established back in 1984, Paddles NYC knows its stuff. Owner, Master Michael, a spanking enthusiast, teamed up paddle expert Mistress Laura to set the gold standard in New York's fetish clubs. Paddles NYC welcomes everyone, offering a friendly, judgment-free environment for all genders, singles or couple, dominants or submissives. Kink aficionado or first-timer, you're guaranteed an unforgettable experience. Paddles NYC is open every Friday and Saturday at 10pm. On Fridays, the first 50 ladies through the door receive a free paddle.On the first Saturday of every month, there's a spanking party. Doors open at 7pm. For men only, Paddles NYC host 'Society of Spankers,' which is now New York City's longest-running male spanking party. This party is held every fourth Thursday of the month from 7pm to 12am. You'll find between 45 and 65 men on this night, ready for some serious discipline. The entry fee is $20, coat check included. Additionally, Paddles NYC holds a range of themed nights, including those for bears and their admirers, underwear-only parties for men of colour and their admirers, and after-hours parties. You can also hire the venue for private parties. For those who relish nothing more than a rampant spankathon, check out Michael's 'For Spankers Only' section of the Paddles NYC website. Here you'll find full details of upcoming parties, photos, links to other spanking resources, featured male and female spankers, and best of all, saucy spanking stories for inspiration.

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Founded back in 1971, TES NYC, which was formerly known as The Eulenspiegel Society, is the first BDSM organisation founded in the United States. This volunteer-run, not-for-profit organisation has an illustrious history promoting the interests of all those leading leading a BDSM lifestyle. TES NYC was founded by Pat Bond and Fran Nowve initially as an informal support group for masochists. It began by meeting in members' homes, and in August 1917 opened its membership up to sadists. The group played a crucial role in sexual revolution during the 1970s and held its first BDSM convention in 1996. This was the first kink convention of its kind, setting a bold template for other fetish organisations, particularly those in the leather community. The TES NYC website is an invaluable resource for all kinksters, and includes an online version of its Prometheus magazine, which has now been running for decades. Additionally, the website includes a TES digital archives section, where visitors can access general information, kink guides, and the TES library. TES NYC members get discount at all participating stores and clubs on the BDSM scene - and these businesses are listed on the website. New TES NYC membership costs between $45 to $700, and there are various options to choose from. Members can attend a wide range of classes, events, meetings, and other educational gatherings. There are two classes held each week in New York City. General meetings held in a safe, welcoming environment. Free BDSM information is available at these meetups, and, of course, they provide a vital space in which members can meet and mingle. TES NYC holds regular munches and play parties There's a code of conduct for these events, and this is also available on the website. The highlight of each year is the annual TES Fest, held in a hotel where members can get involved in all manner of classed, demos, and hands-on-workshops aimed at strengthening the BDSM community and empowering individuals to live fulfilling kink lives. The organisation is always looking for new volunteers to contribute fresh ideas and expertise. What better way to connect with your community?

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