R E S P E C T

[Suckyourtoes]

Is it possible to be submissive and degraded in the bedroom but still respected in your daily life? I find that if you’re being used and degraded sexually that it carries over into every day life in a relationship. Like it’s hard to turn it off.

[SophieSubSlut11]

Absolutely, because if you consent to the *** to someone in a certain space, it stays in that space.

You don’t consent to be degraded by other people because they haven’t earned that place and are not part of a wider power exchange. Hope that helps x

[StrictMaster44]

Absolutely possible

[AKA_Copper]

A) err, you stole my title 🤷‍♀️🤣
B) isn't this about setting boundaries? As in if you don't want it carrying on into day to day life you say so and don't allow it. Simple

[ChristySub]

Yes its possible. My dom degrades me in the bedroom but is a gentleman to me out of the bedroom

[Deleted Member]

It’s absolutely possible. When I was into ***, my dom knew how to turn it on and off effortlessly. It shouldn’t be difficult if one views their submissive as a whole person, not just a submissive kink.

[ey****]

Even when being used and degraded a sub should STILL be respected.  Even if that respect looks a little different at the time

[DanDanK-ink]

If someone can’t differentiate between the bedroom and every day life then that’s toxic or can be in my humble opinion

[Suckyourtoes]

It’s just subtle. Maybe they seem a little snotty towards you.

[Ti****]

Yes it is definitely possible. Just depends on how well those involved can maintain that boundary

[QXX666]

Everything is possible. Bdsm is not black and white. It’s up to the 2 parties to agree on the terms. Only bedroom means not interfering during the day or work time. Some would decide only week end other between 6 and midnight. And sometime it works even better as you had time to think about it all day…

Even in a 24/7 the Dom/Master will release some pressure. We are all human after all… 

[Deleted Member]

Yes

[Mi****]

You definitely can deprecate your sexual and actual life

[Deleted Member]

I don’t know if you have the right dom/partner because my doms are degraders but extremely respectful in my relationships. Why is your dom unable To separate bedroom pretend from real life?

[jimboeats99]

If you aren't being respected outside of sessions you're with the wrong person (unless that is your agreed dynamic). That's called an abusive relationship.

[miss_maya]

I think its t’s absolutely possible, at least when we separate work and personal life. Someone can be an alpha boss at work and a slave bitch boy at home.