MY BIGGEST F@AR REGARDING MY FETISHES IS...

[br****]

It's time to open your heart! 💜

Complete the sentence: My biggest f@ar regarding my fetishes is...

[Jo****]

I would say rejection from a long-term partner that I'm in love with.

[Deleted Member]

Trusting people with myself and my body.

[Deleted Member]

Trusting everything to someone else that they will be there. And that they will make me feel like I’m important just like they would be to me.. and *** more then i can handle

[ti****]

How it is perceived in vanilla life

[ch****]

if it is even exciting enough, and acceptable

[Dom_Kev]

My biggest *** regarding My fetishes is… finding that special someone, and then making a mess of it because I don’t have the experience to keep them happy, and not realising that is happening until it is too late

[Deleted Member]

Unconsentually hurting my partner mentally, emotionally or physically. I never want to violate consent

[ca****]

My vanilla friends will not understand and will have misconceptions

[do****]

never finding my equal and being fully satisfied, unbored and it's reciprocated.

[Fl****]

Mine would have to be, never being accepted due to my kinks. I feel like every female wants a Dom these days and it's so difficult to find someone genuine and not just someone after ***. I'm only speaking from personal experience but it's tough out there and I feel I'm doing all I can my end to put myself out there, but with little to no success.

[Iamthedriver20]

Feeling like a weirdo all my life lol

[Co****]

Its that will I find the ' One' , that matches, and will he treasure me for the Gift that I am?
Give as much as I do.....
And not be a User......

[Sw****]

…. Never finding that Special One and settling for less than I deserve 💜

[Dark_Norse_Heart666]

Not being fully accepted, respected, taken seriously or understood as a woman/as a person or as a sub. The dynamic isn't equal, mutual, respectful so it involves what you both want/need from the dynamic and isn't just about sex.
Some of the specific kinks/fetishes I am into maybe triggering to some men if they self-harm or have issues related to that.
Due to not being experienced in-person with BDSM it's difficult to find like-minded, experienced men that would be understanding.
Being sexually repressed, shy about sex or shy about being into BDSM puts men off me, even if I was single.

[Cypresswillys]

Finding I have a curiosity of an activity and never have the courage to go through with it.
Or trying something and liking it a lot and never have a partner to do it again.

[AnxiolyticPlease]

I'm a big, intelligent, confident, outspoken, and highly independent person... outside of a relationship or dynamic. I'm a submissive bottom. I *** that it'll be hard for me to ever find that sort of relationship, because i present so differently to the world than i would to my Dom/Master/Mistress.

[Deleted Member]

I just don't think I have a body suited to the kinks and fets I love. I can't look in the mirror when I'm all tied up .so I just never fully dive on in .
Double stander though everyone else is beautiful ❤️.

[ba****]

Not being listened to

[Do****]

The men who think they're dominants but are actually self-glorified ***rs.

[Yo****]

Having the courage to actually admit to it, both to myself and my partner.

[Deleted Member]

Never being able to find someone who matches up with what I need. I've settled before and that hasn't worked out well for me.

[Debris]

Being rejected because of how I look

[x2****]

Catching glimpse of myself in a mirror whislt enjoying a scene and thinking who the fuck that old perv. ? ...... oh balls its me 🤪

[Ja****]

That people are needlessly made aware of them for no reason. The person I am behind closed doors is far different than the one the world sees and I would struggle with other people not understanding how drastic the difference is.