I am kinda new to BDSM, But I believe I need some tips and tricks any help?

[KinkyMetalhead27]

So I have been a 2 and half month relationship, with my submissive girlfriend, and i feel i have done a pretty good job so far. We have already practiced with Choking, Whipping, Slapping, Me being more aggressive. And other stuff that I'm trying to remember at the moment. But it would be very nice to be able to get some tips and tricks from the more professionals out there. I would love to know and please give me a link. Or something so I can look more into it please and thank you!

[FETMOD-KF]

remember folks - it's OK to make suggestions for resources, but no external links. 

[ey****]

there's a few threads like this and the advice I generally give is similar.  

Just because a kink exists, you don't need to do it.  It's important to just focus on things you enjoy, or think you would enjoy, particularly if it's mutual.

If you can get out to local munches or events these can be a very helpful way to bounce ideas around - especially good if you're watching others play and think "ooh, that might be fun" - when myself and my wife started we spent a lot of time people-watching

Porn can sometimes be a good way of getting ideas - but REMEMBER - a lot of porn never tells the full story, everything from cuts, to how experiences those involved in, assorted bits of cheating and how well people know each other - I mean in a "that looks fun, let's find out more about it" kind of way.

[ey****]

Also - remember it's not a sprint it's a marathon - take things in your own time and pace, remember you've all the time in front of you - and anything you do try, be aware of safety precautions - just so you're prepared if something doesn't quite go to plan

there will be trial and error and it's also learning to deal/work with that.

[Deleted Member]

In comment to eyemblacksheep's comment on precaution. Choking, there's a couple ways of doing it right, and a very wrong way. Make sure you research it and establish safe words or movements before you continue to play as it could easily end badly. Always be careful and make sure you know what ur doing, if you're happy you know then great, have fun